The thought of being attached to something makes me feel trapped and held down. Being the perceiving NF that I am, examples of what makes me irk (from personal experience) would be to sign a contract with a phone company, staying with a work company that I feel isn't right for me, or ..sigh.. trying to settle down with a significant other and getting scared away when that person starts envisioning our life together e.g. getting old and dying :shocked: idk.. that's just me and my personal experiences. Does anyone go through the same thing? Are there any other examples of how you would rather "go with the flow" without the "set-plans" in life? Or am I just always startled about the idea or attempt to be held down in some way by someone else?