Should you have skipped someone or are you beating yourself up for letting one get away. Regrets?
I don't regret any of my experiences. They all have formed me and they were all unique bonds. I think it's incredible to have experienced so much intimacy with someone. I treasure the experience and the memories.
I've never let someone get away since I don't really "capture" people to begin with. I let people in and I let them out. They sort of wash through me. They change me and give me different glows and better understandings. I leave nothing unsaid. So if I'm not with someone, it's beyond my control. Sometimes, I can accept people, our separation, and love them "cosmically". I hope that others can physically love them for me.
I think I've had a lot of relationships so I would never think "too little". Just enough. Whatever makes me "me" is obviously just the perfect amount.