lol wtf. Are you also speaking for all women? Sometimes a when a woman thinks a guy is too nice and says a guy is too nice, she literally means what she says. Meaning, she probably thinks the person is being too nice and that's making things awkward or may seem disingenuous or perhaps she's looking for different qualities in a guy. That's really not an insult or something to be worried or offended about. It's okay to have preferences and not everyone is going to be compatible with one another.But a woman will never say this to a man she respects. She will either make up for his shortcomings by taking care of his needs, or communicate it in a way that won't hurt his confidence as a man. It's only when a woman has zero respect for a man that she will be patronising or blunt.