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I saw a thread made for the dudes, so I figured the ladies deserve one, too! When it comes to men...

Top 5 Characteristics
Top 5 Physical Features
Top 5 Dislikes
Top 5 Desires

...and, overall, what do you look for in a partner?

(If you're into women, I guess you can either post here or in the other thread. Whatever floats your boat!)
 

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I'll start. :happy:


Characteristics:
1.) Extreme intelligence
2.) Introversion
3.) Organizational/get-things-done abilities
4.) Ability to listen to and understand my weirdness
5.) Up for adventure and fun (on our terms)

Physical Features:
1.) Extreme tallness :blushed:
2.) Nice smile (I like big lips...again: :blushed:)
3.) Pretty eyes (I tend to go for guys with blue or green eyes. It's not on purpose, I swear!)
4.) Generally attractive face....That's really all that matters to me.
5.) Pinchable cheeks!! :crazy:

Dislikes:
1.) Too much socialness...
2.) Man-whore-ish-ness
3.) Beliefs in traditional gender roles
4.) Clinginess/lack of ability to understand my apparent "selfishness"
5.) Not wanting to talk about weird ideas and such (I need an N)

Desires:
1.) I want to be the socially dominant one, but...
2.) I also want to be the sexually submissive one...:blushed:
3.) Someone to keep me on track in terms of goals and organizing!
4.) Careers come first, regardless of gender roles; kids are optional.
5.) ...I like boring guys.

Basically, I like nerds. Oh, INTJs...
 

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It's so strange to hear there are women that actually prefer all of this in a man. It's also hard to believe people like you actually exist. It's a shame there aren't more people like you :tongue: Sounds like it would be a fun relationship, it does.

You say you like boring guys, but is it not also a desire to see a unique strangeness in a man?
 

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I'll start. :happy:


Characteristics:
1.) Extreme intelligence
2.) Introversion
3.) Organizational/get-things-done abilities
4.) Ability to listen to and understand my weirdness
5.) Up for adventure and fun (on our terms)

Physical Features:
1.) Extreme tallness :blushed:
2.) Nice smile (I like big lips...again: :blushed:)
3.) Pretty eyes (I tend to go for guys with blue or green eyes. It's not on purpose, I swear!)
4.) Generally attractive face....That's really all that matters to me.
5.) Pinchable cheeks!! :crazy:

Dislikes:
1.) Too much socialness...
2.) Man-whore-ish-ness
3.) Beliefs in traditional gender roles
4.) Clinginess/lack of ability to understand my apparent "selfishness"
5.) Not wanting to talk about weird ideas and such (I need an N)

Desires:
1.) I want to be the socially dominant one, but...
2.) I also want to be the sexually submissive one...:blushed:
3.) Someone to keep me on track in terms of goals and organizing!
4.) Careers come first, regardless of gender roles; kids are optional.
5.) ...I like boring guys.

Basically, I like nerds. Oh, INTJs...
You just answered everything almost exactly as I would.

it's like you're in my fucking head or something...get out of there dammit!:tongue:
 

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I think I have the boring part down.

Once you get past the part about being a Byronic Satan and all . . .
 

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It's so strange to hear there are women that actually prefer all of this in a man. It's also hard to believe people like you actually exist. It's a shame there aren't more people like you :tongue: Sounds like it would be a fun relationship, it does.
It shocked me too. :D I guess most people are afraid to admit this kind of attractiveness to the "real world" where you're supposed to prefer cool, macho guys?
 

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Characteristics:
1. Wicked smart
2. Playful/silly/goofy
3. Inquisitive
4. Gentle
5. Genuine

Physical:
1. TALL/TALLER
2. Good posture
3. Attractive physical features
4. Balanced body
5. Welcoming eyes

Dislikes:
1. Arrogance
2. Too image conscious
3. Too conventional
4. Judgemental
5. Too rigid

Desires:
1. AWESOME in bed :blushed:
2. Someone who can continually teach me and learn from me
3. Fits in with my friends
4. Has infinite depth
5. Gives great massages

Agocken, I didn't know you liked INTJs... weird.
 

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Extreme intelligence
2.)Tolerant attitude
3.) Organizational/get-things-done abilities
4.) Not so much a sense of humour as a humourous attitude to everything....
5.) Up for adventure and fun. Full stop.

Physical Features:
1.) Physically fit...not too fussy but endomorphs a bit of a turn-off.
2.) Nice smile
3.) Nice hands
4.) Full head of hair (can you tell I'm a bit older than Agocken?)
5.) Just decent-looking. Ordinary is fine. Drop-dead gorgeous is great but sadly in life tends to be allied to deal-breaking ego.

Dislikes:
1.) Over-organised neuroticism or any rigidity of thought
2.) Dishonesty of any kind
3.) Beliefs in traditional gender roles
4.) Possessiveness/cliniginess.
5.) Not wanting to talk about weird ideas and such (I need an N)

Desires:
Not sure this applicable...it's my 15th wedding aniversary today. Mr. Alfreda does conform to pretty much all of above, though I only checked after I wrote them.:laughing:
I think if I could specify one single thing above absolutely anything else I'd say Integrity. Which is hard to define, but it's one of the reasons I got married to this one rather than just had another fling and moved on.
 

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It's so strange to hear there are women that actually prefer all of this in a man. It's also hard to believe people like you actually exist. It's a shame there aren't more people like you :tongue: Sounds like it would be a fun relationship, it does.

You say you like boring guys, but is it not also a desire to see a unique strangeness in a man?
I, too, sometimes find it hard to believe I exist. :tongue:

And yes, I think it also does have something to do with wanting a "unique strangeness" in a man.

Well it was never meant to be between us anyways.
Aw....Don't worry. I'm too boring for you, anyway. Maybe in another lifetime...

It shocked me too. :D I guess most people are afraid to admit this kind of attractiveness to the "real world" where you're supposed to prefer cool, macho guys?
Perhaps. The way I figure it, though, what have I to hide? So I have atypical taste in men....So what? It means more for me!

Agocken, I didn't know you liked INTJs... weird.
I'm pretty infamous for it, actually! I luuuuuurve them...<3

(can you tell I'm a bit older than Agocken?)
This made me laugh! Funny how the years change things, eh? Well...I, too, like a full head of hair, but at this point it's not the first thing that pops into my head. :tongue:
 

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I'll start. :happy:


Characteristics:
1.) Extreme intelligence
2.) Introversion
3.) Organizational/get-things-done abilities
4.) Ability to listen to and understand my weirdness
5.) Up for adventure and fun (on our terms)

Physical Features:
1.) Extreme tallness :blushed:
2.) Nice smile (I like big lips...again: :blushed:)
3.) Pretty eyes (I tend to go for guys with blue or green eyes. It's not on purpose, I swear!)
4.) Generally attractive face....That's really all that matters to me.
5.) Pinchable cheeks!! :crazy:

Dislikes:
1.) Too much socialness...
2.) Man-whore-ish-ness
3.) Beliefs in traditional gender roles
4.) Clinginess/lack of ability to understand my apparent "selfishness"
5.) Not wanting to talk about weird ideas and such (I need an N)

Desires:
1.) I want to be the socially dominant one, but...
2.) I also want to be the sexually submissive one...:blushed:
3.) Someone to keep me on track in terms of goals and organizing!
4.) Careers come first, regardless of gender roles; kids are optional.
5.) ...I like boring guys.

Basically, I like nerds. Oh, INTJs...
uh.... ya

we should talk
 

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I hate to be redundant, buuuut...

1. Intelligence/Depth.
2. Humor/Loves to laugh/Loves to make others laugh.
3. Easy outlook on life/Doesn't take it too seriously.
4. Adventurous/Spontaneous
5. Organized/Can motivate me.

1. Freckles are so adorable. ( But don't let any guy know I say this, most don't like the idea of being adorable. x3 )
2. Nice smile.
3. Expressive face.
4. Hair, especially facial.
5. A healthy weight/nice figure would be nice. ( I'm sorry, sickly skinny and morbidly overweight NTs aren't doing it for me )

1. Do not try to control me or force me to do anything.
2. Please don't be as messy and disorganized as me, I don't want to date me.
3. I know my large amount of male friends can me intimidating, but trust that I'm not a whore who'll sleep with them all and that they're not all secretly planning to gangbang me.
4. Don't try to buy me. In fact, I become irritated when people I care about are constantly paying for me.
5. Don't constantly bug me with your emotions and don't constantly harass me to express mine.

1. I want him to be okay with the fact that I would rather be taught how to use a butterfly knife over going to some cold, stuck-up, noisy restaurant. ( My INFP and I are doing this later, actually. :3 )
2. Understand that I have extended moments of introversion; no, I am not angry or pissed or upset at anyone, I have a "serious" face when I zone out, do not bug me.
3. To FINALLY be completely open with someone.
4. To have a few moments where I can afford not to be a complete hardass.
5. To have my world rocked in el bedroom~
 

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Characteristics:
1. Wicked smart
2. Playful/silly/goofy
3. Inquisitive
4. Gentle
5. Genuine

Physical:
1. TALL/TALLER
2. Good posture
3. Attractive physical features
4. Balanced body
5. Welcoming eyes



Desires:
1. AWESOME in bed :blushed:
2. Someone who can continually teach me and learn from me
3. Fits in with my friends
4. Has infinite depth
5. Gives great massages

Agocken, I didn't know you liked INTJs... weird.

CHECK on all..... except the introversion part; thats only when contemplating ideas....;-) And I dont know your friends.... yet.

Just kidding.
 

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I'll start. :happy:


Characteristics:
1.) Extreme intelligence
2.) Introversion
3.) Organizational/get-things-done abilities
4.) Ability to listen to and understand my weirdness
5.) Up for adventure and fun (on our terms)

why not extroverted ?
 
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I didn't know that women like this existed. :confused:

Women that actually even go for Introverts, let alone the most reclusive types.. :confused::shocked::confused:
Fuck...those are the kinda traits that really draw me in, hardcore :tongue:
 

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I didn't know that women like this existed. :confused:

Women that actually even go for Introverts, let alone the most reclusive types.. :confused::shocked::confused:
I'm just a weirdo, I guess!

Trust me, it confuses the hell out of the guys I pursue....Super nerdy, borderline-asexual INTJs and all that. You know -- the kind that NEVER get girls. And then suddenly...there's me! It's cute. :laughing:
 
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