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Top 5 Things INTJ Men Prefer in Women

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So I thought this was a board-wide phenomenon, but it's not, and it should be. The ENTPs and the INFJs have it though! So, coming to you now, what are the top five things INTJ men prefer in women?


Top 5 Characteristics
Top 5 Physical Features
Top 5 Dislikes
Top 5 Desires
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That looks like a top 20, in a really annoying font.
That looks like a top 20, in a really annoying font.
Agreed.... I would answer it if I didn't have to squint to see it on a 64" screen.
Top 5 Characteristics
Nice/Kind
Passionate
Intelligent
Curious
Humorous

Top 5 Physical Features
Pretty smile

Face and eyes
long, flowing hair
Ass
Breasts

Top 5 Dislikes
Close minded

Rigid/unable to be spontaneous
Doesn't like to talk about big picture or abstract stuff but rather pedicures and celebrities (SJs)
Emotional dependence or addiction
Dishonest with me

Top 5 Desires

Constantly brings new thoughts, ideas, skills
Truly cares/loves me
Likes to cook
Honesty/BE HERSELF
Independence

:blushed:
Top 5 Characteristics
Humour.
Kindness/Empathy.
Intelligent.
Genuine.
Ability To Listen.


Top 5 Physical Features
Eyes.
Smile.
Face.
Dat Ass.
Hair. ( I seem to find dark-haired women extra attractive). :mellow:

Top 5 Dislikes
Superficiality.
Close Minded.
Unable To Hold Deep Discussions.
Evading/Dishonest.
Doesn't Appreciate My Bluntness And Sense Of Humour.

Top 5 Desires
All I Ask Is That She Is With Me Because She Truly Loves Me.
Well, I'm an INxJ... even split of F and T.

Dislikes:
Valley girl or crass behavior
Being overly cutesy - Teddy Bears are ok, but Hello Kitty is *way* off limits.
Materialism
Irresponsibility
Deception - I can tell, alright?

Characteristics:
Ethical
Passionate
Intelligent
Demure
Refined

Physical:
Brunette.
Small frame.
Eyes - 2 please (brown or hazel - depth more important).
Not a big fan of anything beyond a C cup - prefer B or A. They can get in the way.
Not a "big butt" kind of guy.

Desires:
Someone who enjoys exploring new places and new ideas.
Someone who is creative and optimistic.
Partial to former Eastern Bloc women...
Someone who is humanitarian in nature.
Someone with a sense of humor.


Ok... let's play....

Top 5 Characteristics
  1. Individual
  2. Free spirit
  3. Caring
  4. Resourceful
  5. Inquisitive

Top 5 Physical Features
  1. The eyes have it
  2. Lean figure
  3. Collar bones are so hot for some reason
  4. Firm buttocks
  5. Boobs, shape more important than size

Top 5 Dislikes
  1. Having something to prove
  2. Cares too much about what others think
  3. Inconsiderate
  4. Irresponsible
  5. Unable to just sit and chill

Top 5 Desires
  1. Make the world a better place
  2. Finding fascination in even the small things
  3. Being the best she can be at something
  4. To contribute to something bigger than herself
  5. To make the perfect sandwich
Top 5 Characteristics
  1. Trustworthy
  2. Shares my values
  3. Deep
  4. Shares my sense of humor
  5. Compassionate
Top 5 Physical Features
  1. Smile
  2. Eyes
  3. Fair Skin (this is listed as 3, but its a big one for me)
  4. hair not too short
  5. small frame
Top 5 Dislikes
  1. Irresponsible
  2. Having something to prove
  3. Materialistic
  4. Strong dislike of eccentricity
  5. Not deep
Top 5 Desires

Truly cares for me is good enough; I suppose INTJ males have fairly basic needs.

Also, I think I've been interested in Enneagram type 2 women for some reason lately (though they must still be strong Ns).
Hey...I like these lists! :proud:

To make the perfect sandwich
Ahahaha...win!
In order of importance

Top 5 Characteristics
1. intelligence
2. laiisez-faire attitude (few restrictions or requirements on my behavior)
3. enjoys abstract conversations
4. ambitious
5. open minded
Top 5 Physical Features
1. big booty
2. athletic
3. pretty
Top 5 Dislikes
1. controlling
2. emotional
3. materialism

Can't think of anything else
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top 5 characteristics
dumb
silly acting
emotional and bitchy
talkative and bitchy
upon meeting, must be virgin

top 5 physical features
incurable acne
cellulite and stretch marks
love handles
ass of colossal proportion
massive tits

top 5 dislikes
thinking for self/independent
leaving the house
talking about menstruation
inability to listen properly and take direction(s)
honesty

top 5 desires
ability to cook
ability to clean
hygiene
obedience
baby maker, duh!!

..i am definitely kidding, of course. i felt left out. do not take seriously~ i tried to think of the best BS i could.
top 5 characteristics
dumb
silly acting
emotional and bitchy
talkative and bitchy
upon meeting, must be virgin

top 5 physical features
incurable acne
cellulite and stretch marks
love handles
ass of colossal proportion
massive tits

top 5 dislikes
thinking for self/independent
leaving the house
talking about menstruation
inability to listen properly and take direction(s)
honesty

top 5 desires
ability to cook
ability to clean
hygiene
obedience
baby maker, duh!!

..i am definitely kidding, of course. i felt left out. do not take seriously~ i tried to think of the best BS i could.

You appear to have the wrong gender selected.
You appear to have the wrong gender selected.
i'm trying to be secretive. i am really a man. you have made me give myself away. oh, the rage.
i'm trying to be secretive. i am really a man. you have made me give myself away. oh, the rage.
You kind of blew it yourself by posting in a thread entitled 'Top 5 Things INTJ Men Prefer In Women'. To be honest.
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You kind of blew it yourself by posting in a thread entitled 'Top 5 Things INTJ Men Prefer In Women'. To be honest.
as i mentioned, i have been caught. i mean, really, how ever could i be so blind?
as i mentioned, i have been caught. i mean, really, how ever could i be so blind?
Yeah, blindness is a terrible thing. Especially when you can't find the caps lock button as a result. Or apparently fail to pick up on sarcasm. It must be really frustrating. :frustrating:
Yeah, blindness is a terrible thing. Especially when you can't find the caps lock button as a result. Or apparently fail to pick up on sarcasm. It must be really frustrating. :frustrating:
why are you getting defensive? i was being sarcastic in return. no need to get any panties in a twist.
why are you getting defensive? i was being sarcastic in return. no need to get any panties in a twist.
I'm not. That's my humour. :mellow:

*Sigh*. :frustrating: :frustrating:

Sarcasm doesn't translate well through text...
I'm not. That's my humour. :mellow:
really? insisting someone can't pick up on sarcasm has always been a "serious" retort, in my experience. it must be the way you type. it's so nice and proper and i fear i will never be able to master such elegant capital letters. anyway, no harm done- maybe if we were feeling people. love you, bro.

(or was my last comment sarcastic as well? am i being sarcastic now? WILL ANYONE EVER KNOW?)

side note: why is this thread not at all geared towards men that like men?
really? insisting someone can't pick up on sarcasm has always been a "serious" retort, in my experience. it must be the way you type. it's so nice and proper and i fear i will never be able to master such elegant capital letters. anyway, no harm done- maybe if we were feeling people. love you, bro.

(or was my last comment sarcastic as well? am i being sarcastic now? WILL ANYONE EVER KNOW?)

side note: why is this thread not at all geared towards men that like men?
It's not serious when sarcasm is your first language. :tongue:

What are feelings? :confused::confused: Tests insist that I have 11% of it. But I don't know what it is....

You appear to have come to terms with capital letters... Albeit in a rather extreme fashion.
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