Maybe I'm weird but I love small-talk or any exchange of information. That's because while I am listening, I am deducing what type of person they are. All their interests, opinions, outlooks, viewpoints, intellect, potential, "goodness", "badness", and intention can all be accessed through their speech, tone, language use, and body language.
I thought ENTPs were extroverts, I'd love to engage in a car conversation, never silent, talking about anything that moves. Sex, drugs, money, bitches, politics, society, death, love, and [insert any word here].
The thing that really turns me off is insecurity, lies, and fear. I can see through everything like everyone is naked with clothes on, lol. Some people get defensive when they talk to me and it is usually the listed three bolded words and they immediately become "naked." That is when I shut off and shut up.
Of course I am not perfect, but when I do have those problems, I reflect and improve. Or is it I am turned off by stagnancy.