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These are two questions my husband asked on a gaming forum he's apart of to get to know everyone better. I liked them so I'm stealing them and asking them here. Sorry if the wording is confusing. He feels like they aren't worded well so then we tried to fix it but I think they're clear enough.




1) What do you like the most about yourself that you can't get anyone to notice?


2) What do you like the least about yourself that everyone eventually uncovers?
 

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1) What do you like the most about yourself that you can't get anyone to notice?

That I am quite warm and sociable.


2) What do you like the least about yourself that everyone eventually uncovers?


That I keep people at arm's length despite how much I like people.
 

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1) What do you like the most about yourself that you can't get anyone to notice?


I find it hard to uncover how others see me. I try to show my friends a bit more of my bravoure. I find myself quite courageous, still my friends think of me as pure sweet- and softness, not being able to defend myself, etc. It's there, but it's covered.

2) What do you like the least about yourself that everyone eventually uncovers?

I can be quite murky and grumpy when I am tired. I can sometimes expect other people to guess my thoughts and therefore 'forget' to communicate clearly and then get agitated that people don't 'get' me. Passive aggressiveness, sometimes. I can be ignorant, uninterested, reserved and withdrawn. Sometimes I meet a new person and I'll be my 'best self' (quirky, up beat, extrovert) and when older friends are standing next to me I almost hear them thinking 'WHO is this person??' :th_woot: Because in day to day life I am way more quiet and murky lol.
 

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1) That I can be caring, empathic and interested in others wellbeing too when not in stressed worker mindsets if only I had more time to endlessly chat about little or nothing.

2) The complexity of my dysfunctional narrative and why I can empathise with so many injustices and oppressed mindsets that can limit self growth.
 

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1) What do you like the most about yourself that you can't get anyone to notice?

That I'm caring and romantic.


2) What do you like the least about yourself that everyone eventually uncovers?

That my self-esteem is very low (far beyond accepting a compliment from others).
 

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1) What do you like the most about yourself that you can't get anyone to notice?

My passion. But I don't want anyone to see it. Not anyone who doesn't share it, and I don't think it's something that can be shared. It's an adrenaline rush of feeling, a high, pure joy, that I'd be too guarded to show anyone.

2) What do you like the least about yourself that everyone eventually uncovers?

My tiredness. I'd say my grumpiness, but I keep my mouth shut and my head low when I'm like that, so no one usually finds out. :mellow:
 

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1) My Ni inner universe. My dream side. These emotions inside me.

2) My lack of awareness of the world around me and what's happening. I am so so so oblivious, as I don't watch TV much and I'm very homely and prefer introverted activities like drawing or watching movies. Also, I'm even oblivious to workplace politics and stuffs.
 

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I'm going to be difficult and say that to both questions, my answer would be "nothing". The few people who really, truly know me notice the good in me and similarly, because so few people know me on that level, hardly anyone ever sees the worst in me.

Question = dodged. :tongue:
 

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These are two questions my husband asked on a gaming forum he's apart of to get to know everyone better. I liked them so I'm stealing them and asking them here. Sorry if the wording is confusing. He feels like they aren't worded well so then we tried to fix it but I think they're clear enough.
1) What do you like the most about yourself that you can't get anyone to notice?

My most deep and caring nature. I think that may be my fault. I tend to be quite secluded in my thoughts.

2) What do you like the least about yourself that everyone eventually uncovers?

My tendency to worry and become anxious when I'm not receiving positive feedback. I tend to break down if not being emotionally maintained. It's not a 24h job, but I need to hear I'm loved, I need to see that people care for me and especially need to not feel neglected or ignored.
 
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1) What do you like the most about yourself that you can't get anyone to notice?
That I actually have a pretty goofy, laid-back kind of side to me. That I don't really take myself as seriously as I show on the outside.

2) What do you like the least about yourself that everyone eventually uncovers?
That I can become distant and (mentally and/or physically) disconnect from situations/people.
 

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1) What do you like the most about yourself that you can't get anyone to notice?
That I am very kind. I have been told, but one has to come close to find out.


2) What do you like the least about yourself that everyone eventually uncovers?
My sensitivity.
 

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They say what you love most in your partner will also be at times what you hate most...I find it interesting that this seems to be true for what INFJs think about themselves, too.

1) What do you like the most about yourself that you can't get anyone to notice?

That I make an effort to never lie, I guess. And that I consider a lot of differing viewpoints before acting.


2) What do you like the least about yourself that everyone eventually uncovers?


That I can be really unreliable when I'm going through a rough spot. Anxiety/depression from the rough spot + normal stresses + having to meet someone somewhere = INFJ suddenly not around and unreachable by phone. I used up all my sick days so I'm calling in dead? By...not calling in. Yeeeeah.
 

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These are two questions my husband asked on a gaming forum he's apart of to get to know everyone better. I liked them so I'm stealing them and asking them here. Sorry if the wording is confusing. He feels like they aren't worded well so then we tried to fix it but I think they're clear enough.




1) What do you like the most about yourself that you can't get anyone to notice?


2) What do you like the least about yourself that everyone eventually uncovers?
1. Godlike Trolling.

2. I'm never Trolling.
 

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1) What do you like the most about yourself that you can't get anyone to notice?

That I am quite warm and sociable.


2) What do you like the least about yourself that everyone eventually uncovers?


That I keep people at arm's length despite how much I like people.

I could've written these responses myself :happy:
 
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