In my own philosophy, (mbti doesn't matter much for this) there are two types of people:
Wind and Rocks
Wind: Wind is the type of person that is really lovable. You enjoy being around them, and they are fun to be around. But there is a catch, they are with you, because, well because your having fun. The wind spins you around, can give you momentum, can help you. But only in HIGH TIMES. The wind, can get rough also, they can blow you in the opposite direction. And there could be NO WIND like the wind never existed.
Rocks: The rocks, aren't exciting as the wind. They could in fact, be very very boring. However, the rocks are always there. And never leave you. Even if the wind blows them, they seem unphased and unaffected. After storms, they are always there. Just being rocks.
So, which one are you, the wind or a rock? I want to say this, if you are unsure, you probably are the wind. Rocks know they are rocks.