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Core Value Tendency: SIXES are attracted to and value loyalty. They desire to be faithful, conscientious, responsible persons, keeping their word and honoring their commitments. They want to make the world a safer, more secure, more reliable, trustworthy place to live in. Doing your duty and honoring your traditions is what life is all about.

Adaptive Cognitive Schema: Faith is the objective principle that keeps SIXES connected to their true self and to reality. When SIXES believe in themselves and in their inner authority, they have the certitude that they are already on the side of Being. The Force is with them. They believe the universe is ultimately trustworthy and is out to do them well, not to do them in. When SIXES are in touch with their genuine self and others' true selves, they are neither afraid nor need to prove their strength and loyalty. Courage and commitment are naturally present.

Adaptive Emotional Schema: The state that accompanies the SIXES objective paradigm is courage, an inner strength that comes from being in touch with one's inner self and with the objective laws of reality. Courage involves taking responsibility for one's own beliefs, decisions, and actions. It is the "courage to be" oneself. Any organism spontaneously responds to protect itself and what it values.

Adaptive Behavioral Schemas: Faith and courage lead to being semper fidelis and semper paratus, always faithful and always prepared. SIXES actively scan their surroundings for what might go wrong. They have an intuitive sense for danger and so are rarely caught off guard. SIXES respond well in emergencies because they are usually prepared for them. When crises arise, they respond spontaneously and effectively. Since SIXES are conscientious, responsible, and value doing their duty, they make excellent stabilizers and maintainers in organizations and systems. They can be trusted to be reliable leaders and faithful followers. Because they keep their word, SIXES manifest a stick-to-it-ness and their commitments can be counted on.

Maladaptive Cognitive Schema: When SIXES exaggerate their loyal qualities, they over-identify with the idealized self image of I am loyal; I do my duty. To compensate for a set of maladaptive beliefs that they are not strong or faithful enough, that they may be cast out of their group, that they are likely to be harmed, they become overly suspicious and circumspect, doubting their own orthodoxy and ability to protect themselves and doubting the good intentions of others. The world is seen as a dangerous place that needs to be monitored, guarded against, and restrained.

Maladaptive Emotional Schema: As a consequence of living in an unpredictable and hostile world, SIXES experience the passion of fear. Mistrusting their own common sense and inner authority, they fear they may not be up to the task or challenge, and may let others and especially authority down. They fear the judgments and actions of authorities.

Maladaptive Behavioral Schema: Perennially perceiving the world as threatening and dangerous, and feeling fearful most of the time, SIXES adopt either a phobic or counterphobic stance. From a fearful reactionary place, they let their worries inhibit them, doubting their decisions and delaying their actions. From a counter-fearful position, they impulsively push through their fears, often recklessly pursuing, attacking, or acting out the very thing they are afraid of.

What is Avoided: Seeking to be safe, phobic SIXES avoid being rebellious or devious. Counterphobic SIXES avoid being caught off guard with no exits. SIXES avoid ambiguous ideas, positions, relationships, and situations. They want things clear and want to know where other people really stand on issues. They can be dogmatic, fanatic, vigilantes, brave and daring to compensate for feeling phobic. SIXES may avoid making their own judgments and decisions without the confirmation of someone else. They don't trust their spontaneous reactions.

Defensive Maneuvers: SIXES ward off unacceptable impulses and behaviors by projecting them onto others, thereby keeping them away from their sense of self. Instead of acknowledging their own anger at having their inner authority encroached or disrespected, SIXES project their anger onto others and then experience the world as hostile and threatening. They give away their authority and then either fearfully go along with what they are told or challenge any external authority in a reactionary manner. SIXES may either become defenders of the faith or conscientious objectors.

Childhood Development: SIXES often had caretakers who did not wield their authority well. They may have been abusive, authoritarian, absent, overly protective, or inconsistent. SIXES learned the world was dangerous and unreliable. They developed a wary ambivalent attitude toward authority figures. Either they wanted to get authority on their side to protect them or they needed to oppose authority to protect themselves. Their "fearful mind" developed to help them sense and ward off danger, protecting them from being caught off guard or betrayed.

Non-Resourceful State: When SIXES are under stress, they trust themselves less and become more worrisome and indecisive. They might become more dogmatic and orthodox to resolve their doubts. Or they might become more suspicious of others and be more rebellious against any form of authority. They take on more projects, get busy and run around instead of dealing with their inner fears. They may assume a role or identify within some group to feel more secure, becoming devoted followers or loyal middle managers.

Resourceful State: When SIXES are in a resourceful relaxed state, they get in touch with their inner authority. They trust their instincts and have faith in themselves. They accept the responsibility for their own choices and act on them courageously. They believe they can take care of themselves in an emergency. They believe the world is on their side vs against them. They remain calm and say to themselves: "I am settled" vs I am upset. They make molehills out of mountains instead of vice versa, realizing they tend to imagine the worst, blow things out of proportion, and see danger and evil intentions where there are only inconveniences and inadvertences. They find truth in all sides of an issue vs polarizing issues into who is on their side and who is against them. I am therefore I am courageous replaces I am loyal therefore I'm O.K.

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Scream had convinced me that I was a 6w7 rather than a 7w6...I really don't fit this...idk
But I fit that profile for the 7 that you just posted up...really awesomely hehe
I'm 7...I don't like the whole idea the enn. 7 gives off, but I am a 7! lol
 
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Scream had convinced me that I was a 6w7 rather than a 7w6...I really don't fit this...idk
But I fit that profile for the 7 that you just posted up...really awesomely hehe
I'm 7...I don't like the whole idea the enn. 7 gives off, but I am a 7! lol
Do you see how you're confirming your type based on what others say? Whether it be me or Grey or a description pulled off the internet, you're applying what others tell you to your decision. This description alludes to something like that. You're not going to see many descriptions of any type that fit you perfectly. Even when they do, there will be so much more that can be said. Unfortunately, the descriptions do have to be looked at ambiguously. It's also important to understand that while this article touches on some key aspects of 6, it doesn't go very deep.



I disagree with what the description says about 6's liking ambiguity. Although 6(w5)'s do desire clarity so as to be certain of where they stand with others, they can be quite content to remain ambiguous themselves. I've not yet known a 6w7 who isn't ambiguous in their behaviors since they mirror those who they are around. They'll also go phobic and counter phobic but the way the information is presented is a bit contradictory....it's not necessarily untrue but I think some of it should be synthesized better.


For example:


What is Avoided: Seeking to be safe, phobic SIXES avoid being rebellious or devious. Counterphobic SIXES avoid being caught off guard with no exits. SIXES avoid ambiguous ideas, positions, relationships, and situations. They want things clear and want to know where other people really stand on issues. They can be dogmatic, fanatic, vigilantes, brave and daring to compensate for feeling phobic. SIXES may avoid making their own judgments and decisions without the confirmation of someone else. They don't trust their spontaneous reactions.


6's can be VERY rebellious...even phobic 6's, at times. 6's will avoid rebellion and deviation to remain safe but they will also go running towards those attributes when they feel threatened. It's something of an exit, as mentioned about counterphobic 6's. There are some 6's who have a very distinct running pattern of phobia, counter-phobia or ambiguity but ALL 6's show these characteristics at some point in their lives...recgonized within themselves or not. 6w5's do very much desire clarity in others but will remain ambiguous in their own stances so as to maintain an exit if things go wrong. They'll cover all the bases with opposing view points until they can ascertain where others stand before they make their choice. 6w7's will instead mirror the behaviors and qualities of those who they are around so as to remain safe from unexpected reactions. They may actively seek some clarity but it is not nearly so important to them as it is to a 6w5. 6's often avoid making their own judgements and decisions without confirmation...they may ask somebody else or refer to some system of rules for guidance. They may also simply mirror those who they are around. It is due to the lack of trust in theirselves that they do this.



Honestly, I could probably rewrite this whole article because while I can't say any of it is blatantly false, there is so much justice that it doesn't do in describing a 6.

 
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