1.) Is there anything that may affect the way you answer the questions? For example, a stressful time, mental illness, medications, special life circumstances? Other useful information includes sex, age, and current state of mind.
I'm a woman, in my mid-30s tho I don't look like it : p.
2.) What kind of person are you and why?
Thats always such a hard question for me. Maybe see the next question.
3.) What about your personality most distinguishes you from everyone else?
I never give up...if I want something I will do it/get it/achieve it. I'm opinionated and antagonistic often, but also very non-judgmental of people and helpful. Thats like a paradox or something, lol
4.) Do you think there are any differences between how you described yourself and how people actually perceive you? How do you think others would describe you? If there are any discrepancies between these two that you are aware of; do you know why exactly that is?
Thats how they perceive me. And I have to agree with them.
The people that dont like me also perceive me as difficult, but I dont worry about that. Ive been also told that its better if people either like me or dont like me than if they have no response to me at all. Like being a strong personality is better than being no person at all. Maybe....
5.) How do you react to new situations in your life? Can you describe an event in your life where you were in an unknown situation? How did you deal with it?
Ill try to see if I can take action or if I have to wait to get my bearings first.
Also I hate it when people make things vague to manipulate, I get upset. Because thats definitely so much of an UNKNOWN. So I get very upset. Thats how I "deal" with it lol but Ive learned to be more calculating myself in these situations since then. Its helped. It makes me feel more in control.
6.) Describe your relationship to order and chaos. What do order and chaos mean to you? How do they manifest in your daily life?
I dont really think about either. Too much of either is too much is my relationship to them. They just mean the dictionary definitions to me. Order manifests in my life by being OCD about some things and that annoying me lol. But its compulsive anyway. I cant help it. And sometimes order is just nice and neat and stable anyway. And can allow for more control. And chaos manifests by me creating chaos for certain people ??? Some people feel Im too challenging for them and thats how chaos gets created for them. Other than that, Id rather control chaos, like I like to feel in control.
7.) You are given a reasonable budget and must buy and prepare a Holiday (Thanksgiving, Christmas, etc.) dinner. What are you thinking? What do you buy? What do you do?
No I hate cooking. I will say "NO" to this. Ill have someone else do it.
8.) Do you see ideas as revolving around core concepts or as gateways to new ideas?
Neither sounds all that exciting to me tbh lol. If Im brutally honest, this just hurt my head. I can wade through a lot of abstract crap if I need to but beyond that I dont really know or care which one I do more, whichever one works for what Im doing is okay. But note here, it usually doesn't work for whatever Im doing. So Id rather just not deal with the abstract junk. I only try when I feel Im forced to, when I feel I dont have another option. Its very stressful.
9.) Do you find yourself to be obsessive about topics? Do you continually divine value from something you already understand or do you move on once you feel you have a fair enough understanding?
I'm actually more obsessive about my goals. But I get the most obsessive about relationships really and about planning things out to deal with relationship problems because its a lot of stress to me otherwise. If I can figure out what action to take then Im already good but thats harder to do with relationships. Planning is much easier for other things.
If I already understand something then I love to utilise that. So you could say I move on from the understanding to the utilisation of it, but I can also try and understand more while I already utilise it too. Then I have even more fun.
But. If utilising it counts as "divining value" then my answer is "yes, I continually divine value from something I already understand". And then after I achieved my goal I somehow slowly move on to something else. Not until then though. Until then I do the continual utilisation.
10.) What do you like about traveling and what would you do if you could travel anywhere?
Oh yeah I like travelling to see things and just to wander around and stuff. I could travel anywhere really if I wanted to and I want to get to it later, when Im less busy and sorted out other things.
And what I would do, just enjoy travelling itself!, go see various cities, swim, surf, etc in the sea, find seashells, get tanned on the beach, eat good stuff in restaurants, run in cities, roads, on trails, hard terrain, climb mountains, see movies, etc etc. Whatever there is to do. Meet some people maybe yeah like it would be fun to travel to meet someone I got to know online.
11.) What is it that you desire in life? What do you strive to achieve? Why? Where do you think these drives and desires stem from or are inspired by?
This is pretty deep you know. Im interested in romantic relationship/family and career, achievement itself, and being well-off. To enjoy the relationship, the passion, family support, family life, enjoy the competition and my expertise, spend money and enjoy things.
12.) What type do you think you are? Why this/these type(s)? Is there a type that appeals to you, to your self-perception, that you would like to be? Why?
Definitely got a "Thinking" preference. Im comfortable with objective analysis and I suck at emotion. As for other preferences, P appealed to me but then J appealed to me too and I dont know now anymore.
Edit: The type that appeals to me but I am not it, ENTJ, its just cool that they have ambition and vision besides being objective and sensible (unless triggered and overemotional). Why I am not it, because I don't have their vision, and why I would like to be like that, its just cool, and it feels like you can achieve more things that way.
Thanks a lot!
I'm a woman, in my mid-30s tho I don't look like it : p.
2.) What kind of person are you and why?
Thats always such a hard question for me. Maybe see the next question.
3.) What about your personality most distinguishes you from everyone else?
I never give up...if I want something I will do it/get it/achieve it. I'm opinionated and antagonistic often, but also very non-judgmental of people and helpful. Thats like a paradox or something, lol
4.) Do you think there are any differences between how you described yourself and how people actually perceive you? How do you think others would describe you? If there are any discrepancies between these two that you are aware of; do you know why exactly that is?
Thats how they perceive me. And I have to agree with them.
The people that dont like me also perceive me as difficult, but I dont worry about that. Ive been also told that its better if people either like me or dont like me than if they have no response to me at all. Like being a strong personality is better than being no person at all. Maybe....
5.) How do you react to new situations in your life? Can you describe an event in your life where you were in an unknown situation? How did you deal with it?
Ill try to see if I can take action or if I have to wait to get my bearings first.
Also I hate it when people make things vague to manipulate, I get upset. Because thats definitely so much of an UNKNOWN. So I get very upset. Thats how I "deal" with it lol but Ive learned to be more calculating myself in these situations since then. Its helped. It makes me feel more in control.
6.) Describe your relationship to order and chaos. What do order and chaos mean to you? How do they manifest in your daily life?
I dont really think about either. Too much of either is too much is my relationship to them. They just mean the dictionary definitions to me. Order manifests in my life by being OCD about some things and that annoying me lol. But its compulsive anyway. I cant help it. And sometimes order is just nice and neat and stable anyway. And can allow for more control. And chaos manifests by me creating chaos for certain people ??? Some people feel Im too challenging for them and thats how chaos gets created for them. Other than that, Id rather control chaos, like I like to feel in control.
7.) You are given a reasonable budget and must buy and prepare a Holiday (Thanksgiving, Christmas, etc.) dinner. What are you thinking? What do you buy? What do you do?
No I hate cooking. I will say "NO" to this. Ill have someone else do it.
8.) Do you see ideas as revolving around core concepts or as gateways to new ideas?
Neither sounds all that exciting to me tbh lol. If Im brutally honest, this just hurt my head. I can wade through a lot of abstract crap if I need to but beyond that I dont really know or care which one I do more, whichever one works for what Im doing is okay. But note here, it usually doesn't work for whatever Im doing. So Id rather just not deal with the abstract junk. I only try when I feel Im forced to, when I feel I dont have another option. Its very stressful.
9.) Do you find yourself to be obsessive about topics? Do you continually divine value from something you already understand or do you move on once you feel you have a fair enough understanding?
I'm actually more obsessive about my goals. But I get the most obsessive about relationships really and about planning things out to deal with relationship problems because its a lot of stress to me otherwise. If I can figure out what action to take then Im already good but thats harder to do with relationships. Planning is much easier for other things.
If I already understand something then I love to utilise that. So you could say I move on from the understanding to the utilisation of it, but I can also try and understand more while I already utilise it too. Then I have even more fun.
But. If utilising it counts as "divining value" then my answer is "yes, I continually divine value from something I already understand". And then after I achieved my goal I somehow slowly move on to something else. Not until then though. Until then I do the continual utilisation.
10.) What do you like about traveling and what would you do if you could travel anywhere?
Oh yeah I like travelling to see things and just to wander around and stuff. I could travel anywhere really if I wanted to and I want to get to it later, when Im less busy and sorted out other things.
And what I would do, just enjoy travelling itself!, go see various cities, swim, surf, etc in the sea, find seashells, get tanned on the beach, eat good stuff in restaurants, run in cities, roads, on trails, hard terrain, climb mountains, see movies, etc etc. Whatever there is to do. Meet some people maybe yeah like it would be fun to travel to meet someone I got to know online.
11.) What is it that you desire in life? What do you strive to achieve? Why? Where do you think these drives and desires stem from or are inspired by?
This is pretty deep you know. Im interested in romantic relationship/family and career, achievement itself, and being well-off. To enjoy the relationship, the passion, family support, family life, enjoy the competition and my expertise, spend money and enjoy things.
12.) What type do you think you are? Why this/these type(s)? Is there a type that appeals to you, to your self-perception, that you would like to be? Why?
Definitely got a "Thinking" preference. Im comfortable with objective analysis and I suck at emotion. As for other preferences, P appealed to me but then J appealed to me too and I dont know now anymore.
Edit: The type that appeals to me but I am not it, ENTJ, its just cool that they have ambition and vision besides being objective and sensible (unless triggered and overemotional). Why I am not it, because I don't have their vision, and why I would like to be like that, its just cool, and it feels like you can achieve more things that way.
Thanks a lot!