This is why I've been scarce here of late. I've been in a lot of pain, and I don't like dumping that all over those near me, they certainly don't need my issues added to their own. Additionally it takes me time for the emotional storms to subside so that I can get a handle on what I actually feel and what I need to do as a result. I don't really give a damn if people feel I'm being too sensitive, but if I can't really articulate my feelings properly then what's the point of giving them voice? So I withdraw and as @Sily put it, lick my wounds.