[Disclaimer: I know that there are probably numerous threads I could refer back to on the subject, and links to those threads would be appreciated, but sometimes it's nice to get feedback that was intended purely for ME. Sorry for my childish moment of self-absorption.]
So I have hopelessly fallen for a self-proclaimed, amazingly intelligent, stubborn, and hard-to-read INTP (male). I've read a lot about the unilateral affection INFJs have for INTPs, and some even go as far to argue that the relationship between these two personality types is matchmake in miscommunication heaven. Our interactions began with mostly HIM doing all the work and showing all of the interest, but our roles quickly reversed and I became unsure of how to handle all of the feelings I began having towards him (despite being NF, feelings aren't really my "thing"). I tried to win him over with sex. He was responsive to my efforts, but it meant that he didn't really get to know me or appreciate me for who I actually am. I became a girl he could call whenever he wanted. For a while, we parted ways. Recently, he began to show interest in me again... calling me and texting me, etc. I'm not exactly sure where our relationship is going but I desperately want it to go somewhere. I think he knows this and he has yet to act upon it. What.... should I do? How should I behave in this situation? Is there any way to win him over... to even give me a chance to prove myself to him?
Yes, so thoughts would be appreciated.... Love, INFJ girl