For me, it was my parents. They both have a lot of issues and aren't great people, but mainly my dad is just very apathetic, while my mom suffers from severe and untreated Narcissistic personality disorder. At times growing up in their house was nightmarish. Moving out and being at college most of the year has helped a lot. My life isn't perfect, but I'm largely happy with it and have never felt better. I unfortunately still have to maintain some connections with them, as I'm reliant on their cooperation for signing up for Financial Aid each year, and to have somewhere to stay over longer breaks. I look forward to the day when I am no longer reliant on them at all.