OK, I was going to post this in the "I am an ENFP and..." tread, but since I am very new to the whole personality types and for some reason still have doubts, I thought I would post this here first. If I need to move it I can.
Here's how I see myself....
I think about beautiful women, ALOT, I mean, that's when I'm not thinking about traveling, or sex, or finding something fun to do, or sex, or wondering why my friend hasn't returned my text, I mean it's already been like 20 seconds, they should have had enough time to read it by now! I wonder if something happened to him/her/them? Maybe I should drive over there, see if they need any help? Wow, look at the chick on TV, ok, I'm sure they're fine. Wow she's sexy....
I am lost in a never ending search for the perfect career.
(thinking about sex)
I love writing very detailed / graphic / passionate stories.
(thinking about sex)
I write my emails with over a 1000 words / "long winded", filled with every detail I can think of, but I am still worried they won't understand what I am saying.
(thinking about sex)
I was the only kid in my school's "special ed." classes with an IQ in the mid 100's.
I barely graduated HS English with a D+, but scored almost a perfect score on my college placement texts.
I have brain-farts when I "NEED" to spell some of the simplest words, but can look at Nuclear Reactor and totally understand how it works.
I am compelled to contact everyone I know if there is something happening (news, weather, TV show, etc) they should know about, might like, etc.
I have a never ending desire to give my female friends a back-rub ( or foot, legs, bikini wax...just checking to see if you're still with me?)
I look at something (ie; a room, building, picture, etc) for one minute and can remember most of the finest details, but need to have a list of "things to do" because I can't remember to buy Toilet Paper or drop off my rent check.
I will clean a friend's house, cut their lawn, etc, at anytime if asked of me, but I have to be in the right mood to get around to cleaning my own bathroom.
I will take out the trash and not complain, but even if I was about to start doing the trash, and someone says "did you do the trash yet?" I will walk right past it and go to the refrigerator instead.
I Cried at the end of every "Extreme Home Makeover" type show.
I get my feelings hurt over some of the littlest, dumbest things.
I will put my own shopping on hold until I locate an item a stranger asked if I knew where to find it. Even if it means walking around the whole store with them.
I can see beauty in just about everything, but still think my head is shaped weird.
I am exactly like what most women say they want, I'm passionate, love to communicate, sensitive to her feelings, like taking long walks on a beach at sun-set, willing to talk / listen for hours, have no problem with holding hands, (or a her purse) in public, but most women say I'm too much of a "nice guy" or "too mushy". Go figure!
I get so "slap happy" that even young kids think I'm weird, but I don't see anything wrong with it.
I want to try just about everything in the world, at least twice... Just to make sure I didn't like it the first time.
I can sit and day-dream for hours or days about something I want to do, then...oh look, there's a donut! I like donuts, you want it? Don't worry I really shouldn't eat it, go ahead, I won't mind. (she eats that donut I'm going to scream) No, really, it's ok, I don't mind. (She can tell I'm pissed, I better give her a hug) You enjoying that? Can I get you some milk or something else? ....3 am...I'm gonna run down to the store, you need anything? (must, have, donuts....haha)
I think long and hard about stuff I want to do, but before I do it, I need to check with my friends on what they think, if they disagree with me, I say OK, and tell myself, "Ah, they don't know anything about [fill in the blank]" and I go do it anyway.
I like to play devils advocate just for the sake of debating something, but then will twist my opinion to point out the good points or the points that fit with my beliefs of whatever we are debating.
Man, it's been like ten minutes now and they still haven't returned my text! That's it, I'm not calling them again. Nope, I'm going to do it, they can call me the next time. ..... I'm sure they're ok, but nope, not going to call. F$&K THEM! ....next day... I'll try texting them one more time, maybe they had bad cell-service or something and didn't get the message.
So am I "just" nuts or does this fit an ENFP?
Have a Great Day!
SirDude
Here's how I see myself....
I think about beautiful women, ALOT, I mean, that's when I'm not thinking about traveling, or sex, or finding something fun to do, or sex, or wondering why my friend hasn't returned my text, I mean it's already been like 20 seconds, they should have had enough time to read it by now! I wonder if something happened to him/her/them? Maybe I should drive over there, see if they need any help? Wow, look at the chick on TV, ok, I'm sure they're fine. Wow she's sexy....
I am lost in a never ending search for the perfect career.
(thinking about sex)
I love writing very detailed / graphic / passionate stories.
(thinking about sex)
I write my emails with over a 1000 words / "long winded", filled with every detail I can think of, but I am still worried they won't understand what I am saying.
(thinking about sex)
I was the only kid in my school's "special ed." classes with an IQ in the mid 100's.
I barely graduated HS English with a D+, but scored almost a perfect score on my college placement texts.
I have brain-farts when I "NEED" to spell some of the simplest words, but can look at Nuclear Reactor and totally understand how it works.
I am compelled to contact everyone I know if there is something happening (news, weather, TV show, etc) they should know about, might like, etc.
I have a never ending desire to give my female friends a back-rub ( or foot, legs, bikini wax...just checking to see if you're still with me?)
I look at something (ie; a room, building, picture, etc) for one minute and can remember most of the finest details, but need to have a list of "things to do" because I can't remember to buy Toilet Paper or drop off my rent check.
I will clean a friend's house, cut their lawn, etc, at anytime if asked of me, but I have to be in the right mood to get around to cleaning my own bathroom.
I will take out the trash and not complain, but even if I was about to start doing the trash, and someone says "did you do the trash yet?" I will walk right past it and go to the refrigerator instead.
I Cried at the end of every "Extreme Home Makeover" type show.
I get my feelings hurt over some of the littlest, dumbest things.
I will put my own shopping on hold until I locate an item a stranger asked if I knew where to find it. Even if it means walking around the whole store with them.
I can see beauty in just about everything, but still think my head is shaped weird.
I am exactly like what most women say they want, I'm passionate, love to communicate, sensitive to her feelings, like taking long walks on a beach at sun-set, willing to talk / listen for hours, have no problem with holding hands, (or a her purse) in public, but most women say I'm too much of a "nice guy" or "too mushy". Go figure!
I get so "slap happy" that even young kids think I'm weird, but I don't see anything wrong with it.
I want to try just about everything in the world, at least twice... Just to make sure I didn't like it the first time.
I can sit and day-dream for hours or days about something I want to do, then...oh look, there's a donut! I like donuts, you want it? Don't worry I really shouldn't eat it, go ahead, I won't mind. (she eats that donut I'm going to scream) No, really, it's ok, I don't mind. (She can tell I'm pissed, I better give her a hug) You enjoying that? Can I get you some milk or something else? ....3 am...I'm gonna run down to the store, you need anything? (must, have, donuts....haha)
I think long and hard about stuff I want to do, but before I do it, I need to check with my friends on what they think, if they disagree with me, I say OK, and tell myself, "Ah, they don't know anything about [fill in the blank]" and I go do it anyway.
I like to play devils advocate just for the sake of debating something, but then will twist my opinion to point out the good points or the points that fit with my beliefs of whatever we are debating.
Man, it's been like ten minutes now and they still haven't returned my text! That's it, I'm not calling them again. Nope, I'm going to do it, they can call me the next time. ..... I'm sure they're ok, but nope, not going to call. F$&K THEM! ....next day... I'll try texting them one more time, maybe they had bad cell-service or something and didn't get the message.
So am I "just" nuts or does this fit an ENFP?
Have a Great Day!
SirDude