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Just curious. I honestly didn't really know what it was until my first year of college [17/18]. A friend of mine told me she became good friends with her shower head when she was 8 which was eye opening for me. I knew what sex was and I did used to try to watch Skinemax and late night HBO but it just wasn't easily accessible and I shared a room growing up so it was just something I never did... plus the whole guilty stigma hindered me from trying... and my ego... as far I was concerned... why masturbate when I could just go have sex if I wanted to? I actually do still feel kind of lame and guilty admitting to doing it... I need to grow up. Im getting there...

Its odd to think about sexually frustrated little kids, but I know its human instinct :laughing:

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I think I was about 10? I started puberty at 8/9 so it was only natural to have become sexually curious.
 

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I believe I was 6 or so.

But it never involved any sort of penetration, just external stimulation. I did it simply because it felt good.
 

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yea, i to was fairly young. at the time i had no idea what it was. maybe around 5/6 ish. Though, I think a lot of kids start younger.








Feels good man.
 

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way late, to be honest I didn't even understand the phenomenon truly until probably first year of HS, I understood the motion, and had started to develop feelings for girls, but I didn't know you had to do it relatively fast to make it 'work', so this led to rather funny situations, let's just leave it at that xD.
 

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I believe I was 6 or so.

But it never involved any sort of penetration, just external stimulation. I did it simply because it felt good.
The phallic psychosexual stage, if you believe in that sort of stuff, perfectly normal.
 

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10 or 11, maybe? The first time I ejaculated, it really came as a shock. :tongue:
 
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Time to break the trend here...

I only started at 16. I only started feeling sexual around 15, but when I did, it was like BAM, omg, I think I'm going to lock myself in the bathroom for an hour...
 

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I went to a christian private school from 1st to 8th grade, excluding 5th grade when my parents let me attend a gifted school or whatever they're called. But of course at moral indoctrination institutions, "family life" or whatever your specific school calls it was not offered because children can't know about biological functions. It is immoral. In 5th grade my parents opted me out of it, at which point I became very curious and researched it using my recently discovered asset: the internet.
 
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The phallic psychosexual stage, if you believe in that sort of stuff, perfectly normal.
I do, and I'm aware.
I thought strange of my behavior as a child, and wish someone would have told me that it isn't abnormal and that it doesn't make you a terrible person.
I don't feel that way now, of course. I am a sexual creature, and I embrace that.
 

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[MENTION=33841] The internet: a perfect substitute for well-taught sex education!
the internet SUCKS unless it's a forum-based site (like PerC, woohoo!).

although some might find it strange that im much more comfortable talking about these things to complete strangers than my mom...
 

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the internet SUCKS unless it's a forum-based site (like PerC, woohoo!).

although some might find it strange that im much more comfortable talking about these things to complete strangers than my mom...
I would find anyone who finds that strange strange, if that makes sense.

Would you rather be caught browsing porn by someone you don't know and probably never will know, or your freakin mom?


And of course, agree with the other part of your argument. The internet is a very lousy sex-ed substitute.
 

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oh, lol, that's not strange at all. I would hate to talk to either of my parents about sex.
few things in this world scare me. but THAT is one of them.

besides, I have no desire to get the "birds and the bees" which, at age 17, I still haven't gotten. praise the angels.
 

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Like 12 I think. Shower massage head. My mother apparently had masturbation radar because the first time she bursts into the bathroom and yells "DON'T YOU EVER DO THAT AGAIN."

She's dead and I still want to slap her for the confusion that had caused me.
 

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4-5 years of age.

Didn't realize it was sexual until I was 12.

The only downside is I have never been able to improve my technique. Yep, I still masturbate like I did when I was 5.
Goodness! I cant even remember that age!

Like 12 I think. Shower massage head. My mother apparently had masturbation radar because the first time she bursts into the bathroom and yells "DON'T YOU EVER DO THAT AGAIN."

She's dead and I still want to slap her for the confusion that had caused me.
I would have been traumatized :laughing: I do remember this one occassion when I was younger and getting ready for bed... I sometimes sleep with my hands under me and my father told me "Stop that"... I wasnt doing anything but I wonder if that may be way partially why I feel guilted about masturbating
 
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