It's probably less that we do different things than that we do things differently.
My favorite solitary experiences (Fi/Ne here):
- sitting at a nice place daydream (and thus more or less unaware of my surroundings)
- lying on my bed just letting thoughts drop by, ponder them briefly and let them go
- dreaming of my future and things that I hope to come to pass
- spending hours in coffee shops (solitary but having people around you, haha)
- reading
- lying on grass thinking things through
- watching the sky, clouds
- surfing the internet (a little for entertainment, much more to research things I'm interested in)
- watching people, really enjoying and inspiring to see happy couples
- taking walks
Some thoughts on how I do it:
Obviously much of my solitary "activity" is not being outwardly active at all. It's more like pausing my body to get my mind working (a lot of sitting and lying here I think, haha). I like taking walks but I sometimes feel like I get a bit too distracted by my environment and can't think as clearly as when I'm sitting somewhere.
Much of my daydreaming has either to do with things that are really important to me now or with the future. I barely think about the present but every once in a while, especially when feeling a bit melancholic and sentimental, I will revisit and relive past experiences, memories that mean a lot to me (tertiary Si). But I'm thinking about the future the most, of which I also have a very clear idea and defined expectations. I know what I want and where I wanna get and so I often picture those situations (kind of claiming the new land internally).
Apart from that most of my thoughts are random. I often find my mind wandering and it's hard for me to maintain the same headline for a longer period (I assume Ti-types have a more linear thought pattern?). When lying on my bed there will be thoughts, ideas and concepts popping up randomly, quite unrelated. And if it's something important I better write it down immediately, or few minutes later it will all be gone forever (unless this impression decides to visit me again, which it usually doesn't).
I tend to be very selective in what I think, daydream, read about. I strongly avoid stuff that provokes me in a negative way or that challenges my values. Instead I read things that support, foster and improve my understanding and appreciation of that which is important to me. And I select material that inspires me to go to greater lengths in seeing those things become reality. I also spend a lot of time "researching" things that interest me. If I get into something I can kind of turn into a freak over night ("over night" can have quite literal meaning).
As love & romance is very important to me (one of my biggest values) it will play a major part in all of the activities mentioned above and is probably the main reason why seeing couples is so inspiring to me. I also like to feel strong emotions, and at times I might even be willing to entertain melancholic and sad thoughts just to get this desired sensation. Strong emotions kinda make me feel alive. Sounds weird but I like it! :laughing:
Hope that covers some points that convey some insight.
My favorite solitary experiences (Fi/Ne here):
- sitting at a nice place daydream (and thus more or less unaware of my surroundings)
- lying on my bed just letting thoughts drop by, ponder them briefly and let them go
- dreaming of my future and things that I hope to come to pass
- spending hours in coffee shops (solitary but having people around you, haha)
- reading
- lying on grass thinking things through
- watching the sky, clouds
- surfing the internet (a little for entertainment, much more to research things I'm interested in)
- watching people, really enjoying and inspiring to see happy couples
- taking walks
Some thoughts on how I do it:
Obviously much of my solitary "activity" is not being outwardly active at all. It's more like pausing my body to get my mind working (a lot of sitting and lying here I think, haha). I like taking walks but I sometimes feel like I get a bit too distracted by my environment and can't think as clearly as when I'm sitting somewhere.
Much of my daydreaming has either to do with things that are really important to me now or with the future. I barely think about the present but every once in a while, especially when feeling a bit melancholic and sentimental, I will revisit and relive past experiences, memories that mean a lot to me (tertiary Si). But I'm thinking about the future the most, of which I also have a very clear idea and defined expectations. I know what I want and where I wanna get and so I often picture those situations (kind of claiming the new land internally).
Apart from that most of my thoughts are random. I often find my mind wandering and it's hard for me to maintain the same headline for a longer period (I assume Ti-types have a more linear thought pattern?). When lying on my bed there will be thoughts, ideas and concepts popping up randomly, quite unrelated. And if it's something important I better write it down immediately, or few minutes later it will all be gone forever (unless this impression decides to visit me again, which it usually doesn't).
I tend to be very selective in what I think, daydream, read about. I strongly avoid stuff that provokes me in a negative way or that challenges my values. Instead I read things that support, foster and improve my understanding and appreciation of that which is important to me. And I select material that inspires me to go to greater lengths in seeing those things become reality. I also spend a lot of time "researching" things that interest me. If I get into something I can kind of turn into a freak over night ("over night" can have quite literal meaning).
As love & romance is very important to me (one of my biggest values) it will play a major part in all of the activities mentioned above and is probably the main reason why seeing couples is so inspiring to me. I also like to feel strong emotions, and at times I might even be willing to entertain melancholic and sad thoughts just to get this desired sensation. Strong emotions kinda make me feel alive. Sounds weird but I like it! :laughing:
Hope that covers some points that convey some insight.