From my experience; fun, excitment, risk taking, adventure, and also quite a few are really into partying as well. Many are also very physical/kinesthetic from my experience as well and often enjoy doing things of a physical nature.My friend has a recent interest an ESTP. She doesn't know how to understand him or how to "woo" him. She's an ISTJ.
Do these two types work well? And what attracts ESTPs? What makes you interested and coming back for more?
OK yes we do like verbal spars and it can be a form of flirting for us. That said My best friend is an ENTP female and there have been times when she is trying to be playful and it just doesn't work. Her sarcasm is more mean then funny. ESTJ and somewhat ISTJ as well are good at this.Mind if I butt in with a little question for the ESTP guys about the whole attraction thing?
Somehow I was under the impression that ESTPs like verbal spars? Not serious fights, but more like teasing and sort of dissing each other just for the fun of it? Or am I wrong to assume that?
Because I did that with an ESTP I was sort of flirting with, and during the conversation he didn't seem to mind, but in a later conversation when he was pissed off (though initially not at me) he seemed seriously ticked off by my previous teasing... (Even though it wasn't all that insulting since it was obviously just joking around about his ego, and he had been the one to start teasing me...)