I have to admit I was never really interested in a romantic relationship with an INFJ but I’ve since been converted :tongue:. It’s a great mix, though yes as was touched on before the Fe/Fi clash can be a bit of a challenge at first but when both parties are aware of it, it makes things run so much smoother.
The dynamic is an easy one, even with the opposing functions since the preferences are still in the same order so rather than clash they seem to fit together very well. We can learn from each other and with us sharing the love for the abstract it’s a very natural attraction.
I’m just at the beginning stages of getting to know an INFJ guy on a… well a much deeper level and I have to admit its one of the most amazing connections I’ve experienced. Though he did go through quite a period of in-and-out introversion at first as I guess he had to sort some things out in his mind etc. That was especially difficult because I wanted to talk to him all the time and he needed that space. I think a lot of people tend to find that introversion session quite scary/off putting because you guys have the ability to completely disconnect. But since then we’ve been totally inseparable… which is not easy because there is a fair bit of distance between us as to where we live.
With a (healthy) ENFP I think an INFJ can expect an incredibly soulful connection. Sharing a passion for the abstract, ideas, possibilities and future planning. I haven’t experienced anything in the physical side of a relationship with an INFJ… yet… but I can tell you now the attraction is most definitely there

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We do tend to create this huge iNtuitive bubble… like an entire universe together.
The down side is that if we’re not careful the practical things that need to be done like chores and dishes etc seem to be left to the wayside a bit, although Js seem to notice this a lot more than Ps. I tend to let things reach a point before I explode into psycho cleaning mode. The P/J factor isn’t toooo bad however. I don’t mind fitting into other people’s organization/plans (in fact I would prefer it), but at the same time I’m always capable and ready to take over if plans go astray.
I know an INFJ/ENFP married couple (married for 25 years now) and they’re still crazy for one another. They make an awesome team! I’m sure as with any other relationship there will be huge hurdles and obstacles on the way but in all it’s a pretty sweet dynamic in my opinion. :happy: