This. I love debating with my girlfriend, especially since she never gets offended at anything I say, unlike some others.I also like having fun. That's my main thing just not being bored or not doing boring stuff. I'd much rather go paint balling or an arcade than go to the movies. yuuuck the movies.
I also like someone who had strong opinions on certain issues that they care about. I like to debate or have deep intellectual conversations and it helps when the other person has opinions and can talk to me back and listen to what I have to say.
O totally with you on the perfectionist thing...it's kinda boring I hate to say...but it is in my eyes..I like someone who is free like me!