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This question highly depends on age, lifestyle, etc and not just personality type. For example, I have much different tastes now that I'm married, own a home, have a career, etc than I did when I was single, in college, had a 2 digit bank account, etc even though my personality type was consistent.

I like presents that are useful, but wouldn't buy myself... sometimes related to a hobby (like a new bike helmet). I'm not a fan of presents, but there are a lot of things I need that I'm on the fence about buying... or would never spend a lot of money on. If someone gets me that, it says "I know what you need." Likewise, it can backfire and say "I don't really know you." An exgirlfriend once bought me a movie I already owned and hated.... not a good present.

One of my favorite presents recently was a leather iPad case. The one I had previously was really cheap and flimsy. It wasn't expensive or fancy... it just something that I needed, gets a lot of use, and am better off now than before I received it. I also got a really nice set of leather gloves with cashmere lining a few years back - before that I never wore gloves. I'm also a fan of man supplies like cologne, shaving creams, etc. Before I rarely wore cologne and used the cheapest shaving cream possible - but no longer and at no expense to me.

I don't like gift cards because it forces me to shop somewhere and then makes me either waste it or spend additional money out of pocket. Occasionally they are okay if they don't force me to go somewhere I don't normally go - if its a restaurant I eat at a lot or a place I plan on doing shopping in the near future (I spend a lot of money on iTunes and the App store so I wouldn't mind a gift card to that). Also, not a fan of clothes because I have higher standards nowadays and unless I hold their hand through the process (this brand, this fabric, this cut, this collar, this cuff, etc.), they'll most likely buy me something that will sit in my closet until it eventually ends up at Goodwill.
 
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