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Likely, my attraction to the ENTP male goes beyond my appreciation based on observation and experience (wonderful ENTP clients, mentors, professional peers, etc). Apparrently, type comes into play in the chemistry. Often, these ENTPs express their surprise that I'm single and encourage me to mingle with ENTP singles in my search for a lifemate. However, when I ask how their own marriages are going, I'm a bit discouraged by the response, albeit none speaks ill of his spouse. Instead, each becomes remarkably indifferent, shrugs and speaks quite dryly as one disguising a certain level of contempt stemming from boredom.
In one way, I feel compassion for these fellows: boredom can be miserable and when your satisfaction lies at the mercy of a mate who just doesn't stir anything, I'd think that would make for a living hell -- for the ENTP or for anybody else. Who really finds boredom acceptable in a marriage? The misery extends to the female spouse, of course, as she recieves the chill of his frigid contempt, but that's another post. In this post, I focus on the ENTP male seeking a female lifemate.
Realizing how important it is that each in a couple be fully satisfied, I wonder how a savvy ENTP goes about selecting a mate with whom he thinks has an excellent chance in satisfying him for decades. Notice that I do not condemn the ENTP for his boredom (seems like it would take a lot to satisfy an ENTP--nothing wrong with that!) Only that I wonder how an ENTP goes about finding a woman who can fulfill that?
As an ENTP, what do you look for in a woman when seeking a lifemate with whom you are confident she can satisfy you for decades to come? (Notice that this post is not for ENTPs who have no desire for a lifemate; only for those who do).
What specifically do you look for in a woman that would ensure you that she could satisfy you for a lifetime?
Your input will go a long way in aiding me in my own search as I try to understand this type of whom I deeply appreciate and find so attractive. (I get along well with any type; just that I prefer ENTPs). Possibly, for a lifemate, I should focus on other types, but why throw in the towel before it's soaked with sweat?
In one way, I feel compassion for these fellows: boredom can be miserable and when your satisfaction lies at the mercy of a mate who just doesn't stir anything, I'd think that would make for a living hell -- for the ENTP or for anybody else. Who really finds boredom acceptable in a marriage? The misery extends to the female spouse, of course, as she recieves the chill of his frigid contempt, but that's another post. In this post, I focus on the ENTP male seeking a female lifemate.
Realizing how important it is that each in a couple be fully satisfied, I wonder how a savvy ENTP goes about selecting a mate with whom he thinks has an excellent chance in satisfying him for decades. Notice that I do not condemn the ENTP for his boredom (seems like it would take a lot to satisfy an ENTP--nothing wrong with that!) Only that I wonder how an ENTP goes about finding a woman who can fulfill that?
As an ENTP, what do you look for in a woman when seeking a lifemate with whom you are confident she can satisfy you for decades to come? (Notice that this post is not for ENTPs who have no desire for a lifemate; only for those who do).
What specifically do you look for in a woman that would ensure you that she could satisfy you for a lifetime?
Your input will go a long way in aiding me in my own search as I try to understand this type of whom I deeply appreciate and find so attractive. (I get along well with any type; just that I prefer ENTPs). Possibly, for a lifemate, I should focus on other types, but why throw in the towel before it's soaked with sweat?