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Awhile ago I read about the Enneagram and discovered that I am very strongly a Type 4. But as a Type 4, I wonder (and worry) what could other types possibly find attractive about this type. Please don't misunderstand me, I would never actually want to be another type, but as a Type 4, I feel like I am a lot of...work? You know? Like I see myself as moody, anxious, neurotic, etc.
What are some positives about Type 4's? What do other people enjoy about them?
I have been asked out in the past by guys who were definitely not Type 4's. They were laid-back, calm, steady and level-headed. Unlike me.
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I guess I am just having a hard time seeing what others could like about me, as a Type 4, since I am a Type 4. It's like I only see the positive qualities that I lack.
What are some positives about Type 4's? What do other people enjoy about them?
I have been asked out in the past by guys who were definitely not Type 4's. They were laid-back, calm, steady and level-headed. Unlike me.
I guess I am just having a hard time seeing what others could like about me, as a Type 4, since I am a Type 4. It's like I only see the positive qualities that I lack.