[forestgirl]

I have been writing since I was 7 years old. Stories. Even now there is not a day that goes by where I do not write. I just like writing. It's not the greatest. But I still like writing.
I was working on this story where the main character is like an INFJ even before I knew there was such a thing as an INFJ. His personality. But he was the ideal INFJ. I practically fell in love with my character. He was always sacrificing for his friends and loved ones and for justice and risking his life for them. He was deffinately the 'protector'. He was always protecting everyone, tryong to heal everyone. He did not hate anyone, although Justice was something very strongly imprinted in him. He was loving and compassionate, understanding of everyone. He was practically a saint. But he had his fun loving side.
What characteristics do you admire? What character from a book or a movie do you admire?

 

[Bright Laughter]

What I've always admired the most is when someone who is different than their environment, still has the balls to be themselves.

 

[owlet]

I never write characters I admire, or I'd be too nice to them D:

I tend to admire inside strength and conviction, warmth, confidence, genuine love - that kind of mushy stuff >>

 

[Lost in Oblivion]

Two things...

I admire honesty. Be honest to yourself and others. Don't be afraid of who you are, and don't put up a false front.
I admire a genuine care for people. That doesn't mean you have to take everyone under wing. Just be considerate of others...it's actually not hard at all, I don't get how people don't understand that.

Anyone who is down-to-earth and real with themselves earns props from me.

 

[Aizar]

This is strangely harder to quantify than I thought it would be!

In book characters, it's sacrificing themselves for the good of others--the leader that risks his life and his standing to protect his people, for example--all combined with a sense of a humor, intelligence, and wisdom. I love the quirky-but-wise old man archetype (like Dumbledore or Rafiki). I also like the trickster thief who has a good heart archetype (like Jack Sparrow, more in the first movie than in the last three).

In people...fairness/justice/honor, caring for and protecting others, and the bravery to be themselves while still very much aware of how being themselves affects people. I hate the type that strives to be themselves and doesn't care how following their own dreams could screw other people over. That's just selfish in my mind. It has to be tempered.

 

[oxytocinjunkie]

Anyone that's unapologetically themself.

 

[atsleepwalkingpace]

I admire someone who is genuine. When I first meet people who are genuine, I just get this vibe from them which immediately makes me think highly of them. People who can be objective an open-minded as well

 

[GSMenardi]

I admire people whp have the ability to go through hardship and come face to face with a tough choice that will end up making or breaking them, and they decide to make the right choice for themselves, regardless of how it will affect others.

 

[Jamie.Ether]

Intergrity, nobility. People with strong convictions and passions who aren't easily swayed by others.
Even if I disagree with them or don't understand their specific passions, I always admire their strength in staying true to the things they love.
For instance, I am not a sports fan in any way, but when I see someone who is passionate about their sport of choice, who dedicates so much time and energy into it, not for fame or money, but just because they have a clear passion for what they do, I find it very attractive and it makes me happy.

 

[Lady Starbird]

Hmm. Qualities I admire--let me think. I mean, I have a basic idea, but I bet I could come up with a list.

• Integrity--definitely. The first thing that comes to mind.
• Sincerity
• Openness
• Gentleness
• A good sense of humor
• Presentable appearance (not like you raked your hair and haven't showered in a week) :tongue:
• Honor
• The capacity to forgive
• The capacity to truly love people/animals
• An enormous reserve of patience (heh, I can be a little trying at times) :wink:
• Vibes that are joyful and melancholy at the same time
• Would never abuse an animal
• Or, for that matter, a human
• The ability to step back and see things clearly
• The ability to apply himself/herself

Hee hee, it sounds so idealistic. :kitteh: But it's not like I demand all of that in every person I meet. If I think of more I may edit. :happy:

 

[ardentauthor]

I admire someone who will be themselves. So many people today hide themselves away because they want to fit in. Someone who's comfortable enough with themselves to go against the crowd is someone I would definitely look up to.

 

[Apertureconspirator]

Goodwill above all else. Independence might follow that up.

 

[Vivid Melody]

I admire people of honor. Someone who always does the right thing even when it's hard.

I admire people of conviction. Someone who will not easily compromise despite it being easier.

A strong will - someone who never gives in or never gives up even during struggle and they want to quit. They keep going.

I admire wisdom and a sense of humor.

I like solemnity too.

Hmm favorite characters? Gandalf (LOTR), Fizban (Dragonlance), Sturm (Dragonlance), Arya Stark (GOT), Eddard Stark (GOT), Jon Stark (GOT), Merlin, etc.

 

[Symphi]

Hmm...

Top:
Sincerity/Honesty/Trustworthiness
Loyalty
Empathy
Kindness

The rest, in no particular order:
Intelligence (Understanding concepts or striving to understand them, more of less)
Strength (Emotional strength, though I do like lending my ear or shoulder to those who need it. )
Good Listening Skills
Driven/Motivated to Improve
Patience
Self-Control
Passion for life/for what they are doing/for things they like

The list could go on for miles, really. There are a lot of really positive qualities in people I often find myself aspiring towards.

(Favorite characters? Too lazy to write 'em up right now, I'll edit later.)

 

[Celtic Dreams]

I admire independence, empathy, intelligence, integrity and wisdom. My fave character is probably Gandalf.

 

[Hokahey]

Altruism and Genuine.


Neo from The Matrix.

 

[Lady Nurture]

Above all else, I admire a strong, unwavering self-respect. With that, one both protects and fortifies their true self. Though we all possess an Ego through which we relate to the rest of the world, that self-respect does not allow one to become dependent or overly-attached to it. We all have multiple costumes that are part-truth but embellished in fiction as well; in my experiences, someone with a strong self-respect (especially one that is tempered by self-criticism) I will not worry about.
However, those who have little of it have sought me out before in life, looking for some particular secret or method of finding it. It cannot be taught, sadly though I have tried fervently to at least create a vision in the person's mind of what it is.
Absolutely (and I've said this before in other topics) self-respecting firmness; that is the key.
All else that one wants be it more confidence or what have you, begins and continues so long as self-respect is a part of the equation. However, be prepared to be left alone or inexplicably both sought after and neglected; it is catching, like sunlight upon a metallic surface but for those who seek it out as a result of covetousness will find it very difficult to find their way in, which is a good thing.
Peace, love and self-respecting firmness my friends!

Vicky- Madeleine L'Engle's A Ring of Endless Light

 

[Navis Amoris]

Nice, thick thighs and ass that fills up her jeans. (I'm kidding! ....sort of)

In all seriousness, what I admire is usually related to what I've personally struggled with in life. As such I admire people who can trust others, who can take responsibility when they've screwed up, and who aren't bothered when others judge them unfairly, especially regarding past mistakes.

 

[unico]

Above all else, I admire a strong, unwavering self-respect. With that, one both protects and fortifies their true self. Though we all possess an Ego through which we relate to the rest of the world, that self-respect does not allow one to become dependent or overly-attached to it. We all have multiple costumes that are part-truth but embellished in fiction as well; in my experiences, someone with a strong self-respect (especially one that is tempered by self-criticism) I will not worry about.
However, those who have little of it have sought me out before in life, looking for some particular secret or method of finding it. It cannot be taught, sadly though I have tried fervently to at least create a vision in the person's mind of what it is.
Absolutely (and I've said this before in other topics) self-respecting firmness; that is the key.
All else that one wants be it more confidence or what have you, begins and continues so long as self-respect is a part of the equation. However, be prepared to be left alone or inexplicably both sought after and neglected; it is catching, like sunlight upon a metallic surface but for those who seek it out as a result of covetousness will find it very difficult to find their way in, which is a good thing.
Peace, love and self-respecting firmness my friends!

Vicky- Madeleine L'Engle's A Ring of Endless Light

A Ring of Endless Light is one of my favorite books!

What I value is mostly what has already been mentioned:
-Honesty
-Compassion
-Generosity
-Humility
-Courage
-Self-sacrifice when necessary
-Integrity
-Appreciation of all living things
-Isn't abusive to anyone/anything
-Maintains hope and optimism

 

[Macrosapien]

Self sincerity, after this everything else follows. A person who can be sincere with themselves is a person who I admire. Not to lie to oneself, no self deceit, but sincerity with self. It's a beautiful thing and so few seem to be capable of it.