characteristics
1) kindness
2) extreme open-mindedness ( since i've got my quirks, and it would be impossible having someone who does not accept them)
3) frankness (but never the kind of over-the-top frankness that hurts others)
4) high intelligence (i hate feeling smarter than people around me)
5) trustworthiness
physical features
1) well built body (not very muscular, just, well, not slight) in men, expressive curves in women
2) long hair
3) the way the person moves has to be attractive (some gracefulness, i dislike stiff movements, some confidence-or cute clumsiness)
4) men - beards! and some body hair (as long as he does not resemble an ape XD)
5) kind, gentle, intelligent eyes
dislikes
1) disregard for others (as in being rude, mean, hurtful)
2) clinginess ( i need my space, for fuck's sake!..)
3) indifference (..but i need to know you like me. and that you're not a robot without emotions)
4) patronising attitude
5) pushiness
desires
1) someone who lets me take care of themselves, at the same time being able to take care for me for a change, when i need it
2) with whom i can let my hair down. constantly.
3) is as much a grammar nazi as i am in my native language
4) with whom i can spend a whole day without getting out of the bed, then suddenly plan and carry out a trip to the countryside, climb trees and catch squirrels
5) who is able to surprise me even after decades spent together
