I somewhat disagree with your push-pull comment. I think it's nice to have some sort of dynamic in a relationship. Of course, someone who is head over heals for you one day, and the next day couldn't be bothered, is taking it WAY too far, but taking the initiative one day, and letting the SO taking the initiative the next day, can be an interesting dynamic IMO as far as it doesn't turn into mind games or anything.I want someone who actually wants to be with me. No push and pull bullshit - it is boring and frustrating. It's either "you're with me or you're not." Indecisiveness can ruin relationships. It can really fuck people over.