[suncherries]

Hi Everyone

I look forward to hearing all of your interesting opinions on various posts related to MBTI and personality!

I will introduce myself by saying that I am an ENFP female who loves to travel and meet interesting and exciting people. I also love yoga, nature, painting, and Lana Del Rey.

Here is a question: What do you notice as a flaw in in your romantic relationships due to your MBTI type?

I am curious to hear your responses!

 

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[tanstaafl28]

@suncherries

WELCOME!

I had to admit, I never heard Lana Del Rey, so I popped on over to YouTube and I punched up some numbers and I really dig her groove! She belts it out like nobody's business!

My flaw is enthusiasm. It is also my greatest strength. It just happens that what I get enthusiastic about sometimes doesn't mesh well with the moment in question.

 

[AlanMonTap]

Here is a question: What do you notice as a flaw in in your romantic relationships due to your MBTI type?

I am curious to hear your responses!

I'm sometimes quite demanding and complicated, very possesive. And I hate it when things don't go my way. I can't tolerate it when my girlfriend gets angry at me for the most irrational reason. And when she does feel a justified anger, it pisses me off that she doesn't let me 'fix' it, she just wants me to say I'm sorry.

 

[RenaissanceSummer]

Hey, INFJ here. My biggest flaw (and gift) is seeing the potential in everyone! That means even if a guy is completely wrong for me I'll still talk my self into how I can make it work. I'm also very determined about making stuff work, when really it's not worth my time and energy!

 

[Kitty Lancaster]

Hello!
As an INFP, my biggest flaw is that I dream too much. I see what could be, and not always what is. This can be quite adventatious, but in the case of romance I tend to fantasize about every little romantic possibility, and my poor ISTP just...doesn't. This doesn't mean I love him any less, however, it just leads to a lot of disappointment.

 

[p55carroll]

First, here's an entertaining Web page which addresses this thread's topic.

And as it says there about my type, INFP, my flaw is that I idealize partners and relationships way too much and then get upset when the reality doesn't match what I've imagined. My (INTJ) wife of twenty-eight years is still waiting patiently for me to start seeing and treating her as the real woman she is instead of the ideal spouse I imagine her to be. On the plus side, I'm very devoted.

 

[LithiumStranger]

I'm sometimes quite demanding and complicated, very possesive. And I hate it when things don't go my way. I can't tolerate it when my girlfriend gets angry at me for the most irrational reason. And when she does feel a justified anger, it pisses me off that she doesn't let me 'fix' it, she just wants me to say I'm sorry.

I... can relate to this.

 

[AlanMonTap]

I... can relate to this.

What's your type?

 

[LithiumStranger]

What's your type?

I'm curious to know how others might perceive me off the cuff. Care to guess my type?
personalitycafe.com/intro/596834-all-makes-me-anxious.html

Though from your post I'm willing to bet we're the same.
Do you know/suspect what your girlfriend's type is?