Omg, yes. Sooooo important because what is more better than someone who knows themselves the best?!?! Hallelujah.
Friendship is loyalty, trust, honesty and fun. I don't care if the person is argumentative or has their own opinion, agreeing with me on everything is not a friendship but someone who is always the same.....someone who is true to themselves no matter who is around. They are people I want to befriend. Friendship is having someone's back when life sucks and sharing the fun times when life is good.
The same transcends with a relationship.....only there is great sex, flirting and conquering goals together.
This is very ESTP! If you know hundreds of people, then it is impossible to know them all by name. I can recall conversations with people to the word, even if they occurred a long time ago. I know what is going on in people's lives. So, if I forget their name, then so be it, LOL! Most people are not offended by this if you are consistently of kind demeanor, it's a detail not everyone is good at. I try to find a pneumonic device to help me remember people's names that I *should* remember if I am having trouble doing so.
Rock on with your bad self:
friendship + animistic attraction + common life goals = true romance
Hell yeah.
Hell yessss.
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you look sooooo familiar!!! I KNOW YOU!! Wait, what's your name?"
HhHHAHAHAH!!!
I don't even know how many times I've given people this speech while I was drunk. Basically, one huge thing with me is honestly. To be my friend you must be honest with me, I really don't tolerate any sort of lying and bullshitting. You've got to be loyal too, trustworthy, and someone that despite the fact that I'm not very sentimental, I know will hear me out if really need it.
As far as making other people feel like shit, I don't tolerate that either. Even if I'm annoyed with said person that's made to feel like poop, I take a stance to defend them if they're not able to do so themselves. I mean, when someone is saying something to somebody else and it's deserved, I let it be said. If it crosses the line of just plain bashing, then I put an end to it.
I'm the only one allowed to fuck around with my friends, but once someone else does it I get pissed. Meh, It's just the way I operate.
"TFOR" That's your initials for "thefistofreality", and it also means,
Totally
Feeling
On your
Response.
I totally dig how you Operate, even if you sound like a robot because of the word "operate" but its all goood!!
Ohhh man, I wish I was drinking when that they asked me that question...
I also look for honesty, trustworthiness, and loyalty. I also look for who I can have fun with. I can't sit still and just have conversations the whole time. I think you all can relate to that. I always make sure that my friends can handle my jokes and know that when I say something that's "mean" to them, I'm only joking. And I expect for them to do the same to me. I just don't like being proper all the time and being nice to eachother. It gets boring. I'll walk by a friend and do a random "f*** you!" to him and he'll say something right back! It adds entertainment to the friendships haha
I do like people who are outspoken and have opinions, but there's a line I draw. If I have to hear an opinion on everything that's mentioned in a conversation------see ya! Some people I know are like broken records and I can predict what they're going to say right after I say something. If I'm talking about a girl to a friend of mine, I'm expecting his three sentence opinion of her that comes after whenever the girl's name is mentioned. It's just like," come on, I can remember it word for word after hearing it the first time. But do you have to say it everytime???"
My memory of conversations are so good and I remember the most minute things about people. Faces and names are not a problem for me either. My friends are amazed by how many people I know by face and can pick them out from a distance before my friends can even get a clear look at them . Our brains are ridiculous, haha
YEEEASSSSSSSS!.
I do the same thinggg. Like I say something and I'll look for a reaction just once and I'll adjust. And without kinda adjusting, it'll be the same thing over and over again! not gooood.
Thats' awesome man...Oh, and F*** you tooo!!!! hahha
But we are freedom loving and do not strive for power. The ESTJs and ENTJs are all about power, and the second rule from the book 48 laws of power was: Never put too Much Trust in Friends, Learn how to use Enemies.
The author has his points, but basically what he says is friends are less predictable than your enemy. Enemies are always going to hurt you. Friends may help or hurt you.
And feelers are great at having empathy for others until they feel badly. Then they will suck a room dry for a feeling pick me up if need be.
I wish the world had the same views on friends that ESTPs did. I think for the most part we strive for the win-win.
Thanks Elvis. You made me realize what type of person my friend is and they do want this "power" they want so bad... Goshhh, it's nothing really that serious, i mean, yea you can tell people what to do but to a point where you make people dislike you? Ccmon.
You're totally right about that Win-Win. I lovee how everyone is just happy and where everybody wins and comes out FULL. But not bloated.. That's when you get tooo full and you don't want to do anything because you tend to get sleepy when you eat way too much.
I also wish that the world had the same views on friends, but it would be kinda weird. Sure I'd like someone like me, but not all the time! That would be like Masturbating...
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Lol, uhm. wait, didn't come out right..
Anyways, enjoy life!!!!