My ex IXTP and I broke up in April. We are both in our mid to late 20’s. He wasn’t making much effort and had no idea about what the future held. Only ambiguous ideas. Anyways, he started texting me again about a month later asking how I was doing and such. In August, he has asked me to hangout. We ended up cuddling and kissing. The same thing happened a week later. I asked him what was happening between us and he said that he enjoys my company, cuddling, and that he wants a long-term relationship. However, he said he not good at the effort and that he is pretty sure anything will end the same as last time. I do know that he is also on a dating site, but nothing has progressed so far. We have still been hanging out every few weeks. Is he just using me? Does he like me more than a friend, but is afraid?