1. I was born with a disability that required many surgeries as an infant and small child. But I got through them, and fortunantley I had loving parents who istilled in me a sense of confidence, so I have never been ashamed or felt less of myself for my disability. That I think is a big accomlishment in and of itself.
2. I was voted "most musically talented" in my highschool yearbook. That meant alot to me because I pushed myself really hard at guitar, and whenever I entered talent shows at school, I got high off that rush of taking the stage, knowing everyone was applauding for Me.
3. I never let myself be bullied or put down by anyone. If someone was disrespecting me, I stood up for myself -and for others who were getting bullied as well. I never took any shit and by doign that I gained the respect of others around me.
4. I graduated from the Dale Carnegie Course in Human Relations/Public Speaking. It forced me to get out of my comfort zone and helepd me get over my shyness and my fear of talkign to people and being social(although it's still something I struggle with.) It helped me to get over my fear of public speaking, and now when I give talks I have people coming up to me saying "You're the best motivational speaker I've ever heard."
5. I've allways been afraid of driving on the freeway since I had an aunt who was killed in a fatal accident on the freeway, and my Dad almost was killed as well. Well, to get over my fear, I decied to drive 7 hours to Pittsburgh by myself in my shitty car that could have broken down at anytime. I drove nonstop for 7 hours, stopping only once to make sure I wasn't lost. What an experience that was, what a rush! I'm so proud of myself for having the balls to do that.
6. My whole life I've combatted depression. I recently pulled myself out of a severe 6 month depression that lasted from July to February. Some days, just getting out of bed was a huge challenge. But somehow, I pulled myself through it. I'm not out of the woods yet, and some days are better than others, but I'm still here fighting the good fight and I haven't given up on myself yet.
7. After getting a DUI in June of 2008, I went through 3 years of hell. Court system, depression, panic attacks, guilt shame, fear, uncertainty. All of it on a daily basis. My life was hell during that time and there were some nights when I really thought about throwing in the towel. But I perserved and came out a stronger, fiercer person. It took alot of stength to get through that period of time, but I did it and I'm a better Man for it.