This is how I would describe myself.
Very talkative.
Don't like to be the center of attention.
In a room of strangers I will be part of most conversations within a short time.
I am easily forgotten or left out of events, even by my close friends. I hear time and time again from my friends "oh, sorry, we totally forgot you would be interested in whatever." I am not sure if this is because of my personality or the fact that I am very happy going off doing my own thing all the time and they just assume that I am busy or something.
Have a very strong sense of details. If I was to write a story that involved a tree, I would not just say something like "the person walked passed the tree." It would be more like "the person walked passed the dark brown tree with missing bark from where a car crashed into it in the past etc."
Also very into details / senses around me. i.e; feeling, seeing, hearing, etc. I use this information when I normally talk with my friends. Some people say I give too much information. My ex-wife works with the blind, it drives her nuts because I give such great deals when talking with her blind students. But she personally likes the "cliff notes" of anything I have to say. :bored:
Very big into planning for the future. Since I was a young teen I have thought of what I want to do with my life and how I want to retire. So I think very well in both short and long-term details / plans / goals.
Most people don't have to ask what I am thinking because I live my life pretty much like an open book. Some take it as complaining, but in general I am only looking for feed-back. So I like to share my thoughts, problems, pains, and then see if anyone else has dealt with the same things. (that's one things that gets to me, it's where I am very mis-understood.)
I enjoy taking calculated risk. I use to be a Rock Climbing Instructor, travel to smaller countries by myself, etc. Most people around me think I'm a little nuts, but it seems normal to me!
Most people think I have no direction in life, but it's all pretty clear in my head. This is a big one, I have my long-term and short-term goals, and most of my friends think I am jumping all over the place, but to me it's all part of getting me to my final point.
Need time to think things through on my own, but after I answered all the questions I can come up with, then I like to hear what my friends have to say and then I go back to the drawing board to work out any details I might have missed. (normally there isn't any)
!! I give a lot of "warnings" or "apologize" before I say something that is going to even come close to hurting someone's feelings.
Most people who meet me will spill their deepest secrets after a short amount of time talking.
Most women find me to be more like the big brother they don't have, or if they are the ex-girl friend of one of my guy friends they will say something like "why can't I meet guy like you" and then go on dumping all their feelings.
My thoughts move 10 times faster then my brain can handle, until I lay down to go to sleep. For some reason when I close my eyes and stop moving, then I "see" everything clearly. I come up with all my best ideas between 10pm & 1 am, for that reason I keep a notepad on my nightstand to write thoughts down for the next day.
Speaking of notes, I love list!! I make list of everything. The more I can get out of my head the happier I am.
Very thoughtful of people's feelings, etc. I will pay attention to things like making noise while someone is reading or sleeping.
If I can anticipate something someone might need and can have it ready for them in advance I will try my best.
Hope all this info helps.
Thanks,
SirDude