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I am just curious to see how "normal" I am. What things do you like? You can do a brief list(e.g. S&M, bondage, role-playing...) or whatever you want.
 

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I believe things get classified as abnormal, when they start to interfere significantly in aspects of your life. That being said, I enjoy being roughed up, being humiliated, being dominated, candle wax, nail scratches, being bitten, having my hair pulled, watching; basically being on the receiving end of pain. If that's not odd enough, I have a mild foot fetish, I like to lick eyelashes, I like to fantasize about my woman being with another man, I like sex in public or anywhere, with a risk of being caught, autoerotic asphyxiation, and I like group sex. I don't have any philias, though, so nothing sexual, that interferes with my life, causes me any great distress, or anything like that. I'm perfectly capable of enjoying relatively vanilla sex, on occasion, though I by no means prefer it. However, in general, I may not be the best person to represent a view of normalcy.
 

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How do you define normal? Do you mean normal as in the eyes of mainstream society, normal in the eyes of the mass media or something similar?

Also, what do you mean by things? Do you mean just things relating to sex, or are you also including other aspects of a relationship?
 

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How do you define normal? Do you mean normal as in the eyes of mainstream society, normal in the eyes of the mass media or something similar?

Also, what do you mean by things? Do you mean just things relating to sex, or are you also including other aspects of a relationship?
I mean relating to sex. Normal as in what everyone else or everyone I have access to is doing. Media is not always the best way to define normal.
 

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Have you seen the porn of today? Unless you're doing something criminal e.g. bestiality, necrophilia etc. I'm going to say you're just as normal and as fucked up as everybody else.
 

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'normal' generally = average... which I believe is 3-35 minutes of boredom, start to finish.

so who wants to be normal?

i guess im not into anything extreme really though... I like tying people up and teasing them. using blind folds and such. nothing really crazy like hardcore bondage or anything really involving pain, just for the full control of my partner's pleasure.

the girl Im seeing right now likes being choked a little. Seems to be a trend with most of the girls that I know.:bored:
 

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I am just curious to see how "normal" I am. What things do you like? You can do a brief list(e.g. S&M, bondage, role-playing...) or whatever you want.
The concept of normal changes from person to person. Some like it kinky, others like it boring... it all depends on the person.

Everything past missionary and sex for the sole reason of procreation is taboo!
I'll take this as sarcasm or I'll have to start wondering about your IQ...
 
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There is no normal for me. I will always push the limits further and further.
Whether it be certain actions or various places, it's always something a little different.

Anyways, the most extreme I've gone up to is actually slight blood play (sounds worse than it is). Just getting to a point of lust and love where those once sweet bites turn rougher. Those nails across my back or my chest, they dig in deeper -- especially as they cum.

Then, like 2 wounded animals after we're done, we cuddle up and kiss/lick each others wounds.
 

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The concept of normal changes from person to person. Some like it kinky, others like it boring... it all depends on the person.
I guess I want to see how many people prefer kinky vs boring and also what they define as kinky whether they engage in those activities or not.
 

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girls wearing knee high socks or stockings(or anything kind of similar) and girl on top. sorry only things that I can think of.
 

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I think pain and bondage would be a bit much for me. Other than that, I could probably adapt to most things, if not suggest/initiate them myself.

(This is all theoretical)
 
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If your partner is not into these things how do you deal with that?
Psh, if my partner's not into that, I would first hafta question what it is that attracted me to her in the first place (I believe that a person's view of sex trickles down into the way they live their lives). However, if I was already with the person, as in married or even engaged, I would probably just slowly work for our tastes to adapt to each other, give and take. I mean, come on, the differences wouldn't be anything I could get used to. These are sex preferences, and if you're building a life with this person, then it stands to reason that she has many other things that make up for a boring or slightly more kinky preference for sex. You work to get these things to congeal. So what if she likes to put a diaper on ya every once in a while or something, and you get creeped out by that, are you gonna divorce her on the spot?

Listen, StarBuck, as long as what you want isn't like illegal or harmful to the other person, then there's no reason to be afraid about telling other people what you like or dislike, especially in a totally anonymous setting like this. In fact this would be good practice ground for letting down your barriers I daresay!:happy:

We all have our quirks, its what makes us special. Me... I would like to spank my girl... not gonna lie... its a tiny bit amazing. And that's all there is to it. And even if you are a bit of a freak under the covers, even by porn standards ( I cannot imagine such a thing) then hey, guess what? This is PerC!!! You are in good company my friend! So relish in those things that make you unique! And if they are really against all the laws of nature, what are we gonna do? Maybe ban the thread at worst, prolly more like advise you to get some counseling. We aren't here to judge, and we certainly aren't here to condemn. We are here to find others like us and discuss what makes us tick. So by all means, don't feel shy in telling us what makes you tick. :proud:
 

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Originally Posted by Erbse
Everything past missionary and sex for the sole reason of procreation is taboo!
I'll take this as sarcasm or I'll have to start wondering about your IQ...
So sexual preferences determine IQ, therefore reserved people are stupid?
 
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