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Just curious about this. What kind of people have liked you, romantically? you don't really have to talk about type, you can if you want to, but just curious to see what other INFJs have experienced - write as much detail!
Ill go first. i honestly have a really hard time answering this. Partially because I can be very oblivious to romantic advances. The only ones i sort of know of are when people have suggested to me, or went as far as spelling it out, that someone is interested in me. Even when they do point it out, I'm kinda skeptical about it... but anyway, During the past few years, i seem to be approached by guys who have a "work hard/play hard mentality". They are really disciplined, structured and get things done/are efficient/work hard. At the same time, they also "play hard." i don't mean they are "party guys" but they seem to know how to have fun, and seem to work hard in order to go play hard. Either they have been extraverts or extremely people-loving introverts. lol. I think this makes sense though... overall i'd say, i've had more of mellow/laid back types that were interested in me (as opposed to study-hard-work-hard-do-hard-live-hard-work-hard, serious types). and in the school/work setting, this has transformed to mean mellow/laid back types that also know how to get thigns done efficiently and in a discipliend way. sorry if this doesnt make sense. i tired. but looking back, i kinda wish they made it more obvious.
What about you guys?
Ill go first. i honestly have a really hard time answering this. Partially because I can be very oblivious to romantic advances. The only ones i sort of know of are when people have suggested to me, or went as far as spelling it out, that someone is interested in me. Even when they do point it out, I'm kinda skeptical about it... but anyway, During the past few years, i seem to be approached by guys who have a "work hard/play hard mentality". They are really disciplined, structured and get things done/are efficient/work hard. At the same time, they also "play hard." i don't mean they are "party guys" but they seem to know how to have fun, and seem to work hard in order to go play hard. Either they have been extraverts or extremely people-loving introverts. lol. I think this makes sense though... overall i'd say, i've had more of mellow/laid back types that were interested in me (as opposed to study-hard-work-hard-do-hard-live-hard-work-hard, serious types). and in the school/work setting, this has transformed to mean mellow/laid back types that also know how to get thigns done efficiently and in a discipliend way. sorry if this doesnt make sense. i tired. but looking back, i kinda wish they made it more obvious.
What about you guys?