I am curious as to what kinds of people ENFJ's are naturally drawn to.
Pretend as if you were at a party in which you did not know anyone except the host. You have to choose which kinds of people to interact with and get to know first. What would your ideal person look like, be having conversations with others about, etc?
Well, I'm drawn to all sorts of different people. There are of course different places where I am drawn to different types. For example; if I am at a party and feel really hyped about having fun, I will seek out other extroverted types, usually the loudest ones lol, and we will both be highly entertaining and bounce off each other with jokes, and banter etc. In that frame of mind I am a bit of an attention seeker. ESFPs are fantastic for this purpose. Although this isn't always me.
But, for one on one conversations, it is easier to say who I wouldn't be drawn to.
Those would be people who are mean, obnoxious, more into themselves than anyone else, are so focused on always being right that they will tread on other people's feelings to make a point, will argue the back end off a bus. These people are the types I take pleasure in bringing down a peg or two. I will be inclined to get quite sarcastic with them and try to get them off their high horse. I will also look for a way to retreat if I am stuck listening to someone who drones on and on about themselves and aren't interesting at all. I don't mind listening to someone if there is at least a couple of things that I find interesting, but if they are as boring as boring gets, then I am afraid I don't have the patience to talk to them for long.
So generally, I look for people who have a good sense of humour, who look approachable (no scowls), and seem good hearted. I'm afraid I have to be able to laugh during a conversation or I tend to get bored. IT sounds bad, I'm not a bad person honest. I just get side tracked sometimes if nothing holds my attention.