What makes YOU feel hot, attractive, sexy about yourself?

I feel hot when I beat someone at darts. I feel hot when I win a dance off. I feel hot when I can run physical circles around people. I feel hot when I skate. I feel hot if I make an egomanic dude eat crow (no that is not aimed at any person here).

I feel hot when I get a new pair of sneakers.

I feel hot when I have a nice new pair of well fitted jeans.

I feel hot when I am well rested, eating well, and making healthier lifestyle choices.

I feel hot when my skin and hair look healthy/good.

Walking into a bar and men stopping and staring
Biting back after being disrespected and rendering him speechless because it catches him off guard
The first time they see you naked, they can't get any intelligible words out and are absolute putty in your hand👌

Lesson: men need to shut up more (kidding..kidding)

When I gain a little bit weight
Honestly? Ovulating. Those are the days I'm feeling myself and make effort
Wearing matching lingerie, especially if it's a new set
Dancing
Wearing heels
When a man puts his arms around me and shows me off

shameless said:

Yea I am absolutely asking this after reading what femcels are, and reading what people find hot in others, and reading peoples post tutorials on how to be aesthetically hot.

What makes you feel sexy, feel hot (not hot and bothers/aroused), and attractive?


Please do tell us what makes you feel you are hot. And why you are feeling yourself…

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When women rape me with their eyes.

Most of the time. I usually from feeling attractive to feeling irresistible as the day goes by.

I initially wrote a lot but then I realised that most of it could be summarised as after I do anything to improve my hygiene and I see, smell and feel the end result. In fact, when I was a teenager, instead of calling it "taking a shower", I would call it "getting sexy". Cringy, I know, but it's funny to me.

The feeling of dressing up is nice as well. It has to come after a shower though. Otherwise it's meh.

Also when I cook up a delicious meal and serve it up in a well presented plating.

But overall, the biggest one is coming out of the shower while my hair is still wet. It just looks so damn good to me. And that fresh feeling after wards. Combined with the feeling of soft comfortable fabric on my skin afterwards is pretty dope as well. I'm always on my A game for the first 2-3 hours of being out after having showered and dressed. If I'm having an indoor date night with the missus and it's my turn to host the date, then I'm on my S++ game.

some days I just FEEL “especially cute” ( lack of better word) it is in the air or something…those days i just feel cute and I actually do want to go out and go do something and be around others,…( this is an introvert speaking ) almost taken back by how good I feel and very please how I look for some unknown reasons…otherwise I don’t really think about it.

oh, wait…when I wear myrrh and frankincense ( essential oil blended ), oh, it smells so good like a creamy warm cashmere woody smell … And ppl react to it…sometimes they don’t realize it’s a person like one person thought someone was baking fresh cookies, and talking about how great it smell in this small waiting room…nope it’s ME, ha! sometimes they will realize it’s me or keep asking and I have to admit it’s me, it’s kinda embarrassing but I love it at the same t8me, ( they are always saying something good about it before they even realize where the smell is coming from)…I’ve had ppl in stores/esp book stores ask what I’m wearing as we pass by. i wear it during the cold months…Oct-Feb…it makes me feel important (subtlety noticed) in a weird way, and beautiful, I know I smell good. Lol.

when I’m taking a long relaxing bath, bubbles and all, feeling very clean and refres while Listening to cello music.

when I’m in the woods, deep in the woods, I feel completely alive and we will leave it at that.

Lol Damnit, Shameless! This and the other thread about feeling hot or feeling unhot are my kryptonite right now. I keep thinking about "what actually makes me feel hot?" and I have no answer lol. I don't generally feel hot but that doesn't mean I don't feel great about myself. Just...do I ever consider myself hot or not? I'm not sure and it's concerning me 🙈