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Men are simple:

They want a virgin whore who's willing to act like their mother.

That's all.
 

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I certainly hope *not*, my Mother is a nightmare to know and be around for very long ;-)

Ho's would not necessarily be my thing; never black and white when it seems College students have always supposedly 'been drawn to' pornography or prostitution to pay tuition fees.
 

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Men are simple:

They want a virgin whore who's willing to act like their mother.

That's all.
Yeesh.

That's alright, you can have both but only if your promise to keep 'em.
 

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Men are simple:

They want a virgin whore who's willing to act like their mother.

That's all.
It's not all they want, it's the few things they're not already getting. Take away the devotion, affection, attention and the things that men expect and usually get freely from women and they turn into insecure, whiny, cry babies.
"Why won't you open up to me?", "Do you love me?", "Why don't you care where I am and what I'm doing?", "Why aren't you dropping everything to be with me?", "You're fucking somebody else aren't you?", and on and on..... :rolleyes:
 
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probably what everyone else on their individual level wants...

oh wait, what am i saying. i would love to be smothered and to have the person rely on my existence in a stereotypical mother-like fashion, never treating me as an equal, always wanting and expecting unfairly, attempting to shape and create me into something within their own image...

what's the big deal with virgins, anyhow? if that level of "tightness" is necessary for enjoyment, maybe it says something about the dude's equipment... :tongue:. not to mention that if the relationship goes sour, the breakup will most likely be brutal.
 

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So I've just recently discovered I am not a man.

This is news to me.
 

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l had to post it here too to be fair, but l indeed find both tales positively enchanting.
 
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Oh but surely all the men disagreeing are just confused about their own desires, and only OP here knows true human nature. >.>

I look forward to the day when people can speak of individuals without applying sweeping gender generalizations like everyone with a penis is tapped into one hivemind, and everyone with a vagina is tapped into the other -- oh and of course those two hiveminds are always at odds like opposing sports teams. "All men blahblah impossible shit", "all women blahblah impossible shit", yet somehow plenty of people don't fit these stereotypes, and plenty of people end up together despite the impossible equations for romance that people come up with.
 

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probably what everyone else on their individual level wants...

oh wait, what am i saying. i would love to be smothered and to have the person rely on my existence in a stereotypical mother-like fashion, never treating me as an equal, always wanting and expecting unfairly, attempting to shape and create me into something within their own image...

what's the big deal with virgins, anyhow? if that level of "tightness" is necessary for enjoyment, maybe it says something about the dude's equipment... :tongue:. not to mention that if the relationship goes sour, the breakup will most likely be brutal.
Near as I can tell..

The virgin fixation is on not wanting damaged goods, wanting to know you're the only one to have been up in dat. A purity fetish (certainly not every guy has this, and its not limited to males when it does appear. It is however an old cultural thing that some still buy into where the woman should be 'untainted' which means you will see more men who have the idea, being socialized this way - and less women but it can still form on a more individual basis for women, and even for men who weren't exactly socialized this way.)

And for some, they can't handle the thought that perhaps a non-virgin liked the other dickens better, and might want to go trawlin' for even more variety or something even better (an insecurity that not all men have, and an insecurity that -some- women have as well.)
*Random example, a few friends of mine from college - girl who dated this dude talked about how teenyweenie his dique was, how he couldn't bring anyone to orgasm, and he was this hugely insecure dude who ended up wanting to only be with teenage virgins because maybe they don't realize how tiny his weenus is, and how bad he is at teh fuxing because they have no other experience to measure it by. So like some Goldilocks tale of hyper-promiscuity, he went around trying out any young girl who would have him, hoping to meet the one who thought his fish-bait size ticklegizzard was juuuust riiiight.
 

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On Reddit there's a meme called "Good Girl Gina" that gets voted up to the front page on occasion. It's a picture of a beautiful, smiling woman in her mid-twenties. And the captions always have her expressing something that can basically be generalized into "I don't care if you're a porn-addicted socially-awkward videogame- and porn-addict who forgets my birthday. I'll fuck you anyway--and only you--because I'm Good Girl Gina".

Now, like, 6% of the US population is on Reddit. It can't just be pimply 14-year-olds upvoting that shit.
 

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On Reddit there's a meme called "Good Girl Gina" that gets voted up to the front page on occasion. It's a picture of a beautiful, smiling woman in her mid-twenties. And the captions always have her expressing something that can basically be generalized into "I don't care if you're a porn-addicted socially-awkward videogame- and porn-addict who forgets my birthday. I'll fuck you anyway--and only you--because I'm Good Girl Gina".

Now, like, 6% of the US population is on Reddit. It can't just be pimply 14-year-olds upvoting that shit.
If you're talking mentally, I'll guarantee it.
 

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Men are simple:

They want a virgin whore who's willing to act like their mother.

That's all.
I've dated ladies who used to be prostitutes. Turns out they are people.

I've dated virgins. Only ever had sex with one, and that was because she lied to me.

My mother has some good attributes. Some bad. I can't say I'd like to date someone like my mother. I had enough of her growing up.

I want an intelligent partner with strong Fe who is capable of loving me for what I am.

Sounds easy when you write it out like that.
 

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By mother do you mean doing all his cooking and cleaning up after him? I've met many a men like this: They want a woman who is basically a virgin but she must be able to perform like a porn star in bed. How realistic.
 

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Near as I can tell..

The virgin fixation is on not wanting damaged goods, wanting to know you're the only one to have been up in dat. A purity fetish (certainly not every guy has this, and its not limited to males when it does appear. It is however an old cultural thing that some still buy into where the woman should be 'untainted' which means you will see more men who have the idea, being socialized this way - and less women but it can still form on a more individual basis for women, and even for men who weren't exactly socialized this way.)

And for some, they can't handle the thought that perhaps a non-virgin liked the other dickens better, and might want to go trawlin' for even more variety or something even better (an insecurity that not all men have, and an insecurity that -some- women have as well.)
*Random example, a few friends of mine from college - girl who dated this dude talked about how teenyweenie his dique was, how he couldn't bring anyone to orgasm, and he was this hugely insecure dude who ended up wanting to only be with teenage virgins because maybe they don't realize how tiny his weenus is, and how bad he is at teh fuxing because they have no other experience to measure it by. So like some Goldilocks tale of hyper-promiscuity, he went around trying out any young girl who would have him, hoping to meet the one who thought his fish-bait size ticklegizzard was juuuust riiiight.
well, that's sad (the guy).

speaking of one's SO thinking they're past lovers are better in bed isn't an comfortable thought, though... maybe i'm naive or idealistic, but i think that you should be with a person because they speak to you on some level. and if they speak to you (spiritually, mentally, and emotionally), they also speak to your body through all of those things. so the sex should be something that is created by each person from what's already there.

and if it is, how would it not be good, and how could it be compared to another incident where the base ingredients are completely different? i think that if the sex isn't "good", then someone isn't contributing in the way that they should, and that is the problem--not anyone's hardware.

edit: not implying that you're saying otherwise--just going off at the fingers.
 

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I think my sexuality just went into entropy. You gave Freud wood in his grave though, amen stranger! But I still like Sternberg's triarchic theory of love. But hey you are right about GGGina...I must just be in penile.
 

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I'd like to disagree.
 
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