It's not all they want, it's the few things they're not already getting. Take away the devotion, affection, attention and the things that men expect and usually get freely from women and they turn into insecure, whiny, cry babies.
Near as I can tell..probably what everyone else on their individual level wants...
oh wait, what am i saying. i would love to be smothered and to have the person rely on my existence in a stereotypical mother-like fashion, never treating me as an equal, always wanting and expecting unfairly, attempting to shape and create me into something within their own image...
what's the big deal with virgins, anyhow? if that level of "tightness" is necessary for enjoyment, maybe it says something about the dude's equipment... :tongue:. not to mention that if the relationship goes sour, the breakup will most likely be brutal.
If you're talking mentally, I'll guarantee it.On Reddit there's a meme called "Good Girl Gina" that gets voted up to the front page on occasion. It's a picture of a beautiful, smiling woman in her mid-twenties. And the captions always have her expressing something that can basically be generalized into "I don't care if you're a porn-addicted socially-awkward videogame- and porn-addict who forgets my birthday. I'll fuck you anyway--and only you--because I'm Good Girl Gina".
Now, like, 6% of the US population is on Reddit. It can't just be pimply 14-year-olds upvoting that shit.
I've dated ladies who used to be prostitutes. Turns out they are people.
well, that's sad (the guy).Near as I can tell..
The virgin fixation is on not wanting damaged goods, wanting to know you're the only one to have been up in dat. A purity fetish (certainly not every guy has this, and its not limited to males when it does appear. It is however an old cultural thing that some still buy into where the woman should be 'untainted' which means you will see more men who have the idea, being socialized this way - and less women but it can still form on a more individual basis for women, and even for men who weren't exactly socialized this way.)
And for some, they can't handle the thought that perhaps a non-virgin liked the other dickens better, and might want to go trawlin' for even more variety or something even better (an insecurity that not all men have, and an insecurity that -some- women have as well.)
*Random example, a few friends of mine from college - girl who dated this dude talked about how teenyweenie his dique was, how he couldn't bring anyone to orgasm, and he was this hugely insecure dude who ended up wanting to only be with teenage virgins because maybe they don't realize how tiny his weenus is, and how bad he is at teh fuxing because they have no other experience to measure it by. So like some Goldilocks tale of hyper-promiscuity, he went around trying out any young girl who would have him, hoping to meet the one who thought his fish-bait size ticklegizzard was juuuust riiiight.