No, my ex-wife is probably an ESFP. Maybe ISFP. More importantly however, she likely has untreated Borderline Personality Disorder, which would be challenging in anyone regardless of their personality type. Or at least she's on that spectrum. Refuses to see a psych so who knows.I really want to know why.
Especially that's why I don't prefer any relationship with Fi users, man. Not that they are fundamentally unworthy for a relationship, just because they are most likely to misunderstand and therefore blame me. Even though I've some decades of experience, I couldn't find any way to avoid misunderstanding except being silent and let them think they are right. Some Fe users misunderstands too but at least they don't go that far like some Fi users. When I state this kind of opinion people think I'm being typist. They probably think; anyone who wrote articles about the pros and cons of the relationship between types is a typist and generalize their opinions too LMAO. Some people doesn't realize what "some" means and they have no idea what "could", "probably", "perhaps", "may", etc. means. SMH, I really don't know what to say to some Fi user. Unfortunately, sometimes damned if I do, damned if I don't.
If I remember correctly, your ex-wife was an INFP and there was no way to deal with her. Perhaps there is really no way to deal with some INFPs without ruining your own soul.
The style of communication you have adapted here on PerC appears combative and conflict-seeking, but I'm not sure those are your intentions. Maybe it is partially a cultural/language thing? I've only been briefly in your part of the world, and I'm not sure to what an extent you would say your style of communication resembles that of the culture you grew up in.
What I can say, however, is that where I come from, you would basically have to hate someone to use the kind of language you casually do here on PerC. Absolutely hate and detest. I don't think you hate anyone here, and I wonder what your impression is of how your posts are perceived, or why you express yourself the way you do. My impression of you, after reading several hundred of your posts, is of someone who cares about people and would want them to live in a good society, but you shroud it in a form of English which appears unnecessarily combative to many here on PerC. Why?