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Achievement-oriented - He is always setting himself new (long-term) goals and takes pride in the struggle of achieving something bigger. He is future-focused and brilliant at organizing his plans, breaking them down into smaller milestones. He is committed to being successful in the eyes of others. He is open to others’ suggestions if it will enchance his status and he is willing to try new hobbies, new lifestyle choices, new fashion styles etc if it means people will think more highly of him.

Efficient & strategic - He prides himself on being efficient and using the best processes to achieve maximum results (e.g. he regularly partakes in the low carb diet because he trusts external sources that it is the most efficient diet for high performance and health). He likes to deal with the world in a rational and executive way and is fond of strategic plannning.

Tactful and diplomatic - he presents himself in a very measured and conscientous manner, always adapting his speaking style based on the person he is with. He can very persuasive and creative in his speech. He has a very rich vocabularly (much of which he learned from boarding school). Sometimes he can come across as overly formal because he wants to give off a good impression.

Responsible - he’s on of the most conscientious and considerate people I know, always making sure everything is taken care of and everyone is looked after. But he hates when I call him mature or serious and he always compensates by acting goofy and silly and playful.

Career-wise - he is currently training to beocome a lawyer because he has excellent analytical skills, is great with details, and is passionate about justice, fairness, politics and the law. He has been studying theoretical politics and he has concluded that he leans towards the left-wing side of things and would prefer to disregard tradition in favour of progression and equality.

He has also considered becoming a teacher and a journalist (specifially in the field of history) because he has always been passionate about the subject and is very good at explaining things to people in a step-by-step way or offering a more in-depth point of view. He is often bringing up facts and figures from various historical events and processes.

Systematic - He is known for being cautious systematic in his approach to decision-making, making sure he reads the fine print etc. He rarely acts on impulse and likes to consider the practical attributes of things (as opposed to aesthetic considerations). He likes to have a vast amount of control over his life at any given moment and feels uncomfortable in chaos. He prefers it when things are scheduled as opposed to spontaenity.

Competitive - When challenged to do something (as long its not overly stupid) he’ll usually step up his game and deliver. He takes competition rather seriously and feels bad if he loses (he’s likely to get angry and give up).

Practical - He is great at getting things done in the real world and thoroughly enjoys tasks like cooking, excercise and cleaning. If he strays from his schedule he can become stressed out. He is the kind of guy that will prep all of his meals in advance because it gives him peace of mind. He also loves making food for others and seeing their faces light up, confirming he has done a good job. He makes a great provider.

Deeply insightful - he will pick on the intentions of other people easily and look beyond the surface of what was said. He tends to give a lot of people the benefit of the doubt (e.g. oh she wasn’t being deliberatly mean, she was just acting out of fear from her abusive past etc). He knows a lot about the motives of people in this respect but he’ll rarely ever call them out on it as he’d prefer to keep the harmony.

People-pleaser - He seeks harmony in his social groups and any overly emotional displays of anger or upset can make him extremeley uncomfortble. While he’s very controlled and organized in his own life, when it comes to social groups he comes off as much more easy-going and doesn’t mind other people deciding what to do and where to hang out. As long as everyone is in good spirits and cooperating, he is happy. He expects others to be considerate of his feelings as he is to theirs and prefers to control his impulsive emotions. He easily gives compliments and likes to see the best in others. He’s great at keeping up a pleasant and harmonious atmosphere by making jokes and teasing others. He has an incredible wit and often can find a clever way to ridicule something by relying on analogies and references. He is also god of sarcasm.
 

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Achievement-oriented - He is always setting himself new (long-term) goals and takes pride in the struggle of achieving something bigger. He is future-focused and brilliant at organizing his plans, breaking them down into smaller milestones. He is committed to being successful in the eyes of others. He is open to others’ suggestions if it will enchance his status and he is willing to try new hobbies, new lifestyle choices, new fashion styles etc if it means people will think more highly of him.
Ni

Efficient & strategic - He prides himself on being efficient and using the best processes to achieve maximum results (e.g. he regularly partakes in the low carb diet because he trusts external sources that it is the most efficient diet for high performance and health). He likes to deal with the world in a rational and executive way and is fond of strategic plannning.
Te

Tactful and diplomatic - he presents himself in a very measured and conscientous manner, always adapting his speaking style based on the person he is with. He can very persuasive and creative in his speech. He has a very rich vocabularly (much of which he learned from boarding school). Sometimes he can come across as overly formal because he wants to give off a good impression.
I think this is Te.

Responsible - he’s on of the most conscientious and considerate people I know, always making sure everything is taken care of and everyone is looked after. But he hates when I call him mature or serious and he always compensates by acting goofy and silly and playful.
Te or Fe.

Career-wise - he is currently training to beocome a lawyer because he has excellent analytical skills, is great with details, and is passionate about justice, fairness, politics and the law. He has been studying theoretical politics and he has concluded that he leans towards the left-wing side of things and would prefer to disregard tradition in favour of progression and equality.
This is generally an NTJ thing. Not the left-wing part, but the lawyer type.

He has also considered becoming a teacher and a journalist (specifially in the field of history) because he has always been passionate about the subject and is very good at explaining things to people in a step-by-step way or offering a more in-depth point of view. He is often bringing up facts and figures from various historical events and processes.
Te.

Systematic - He is known for being cautious systematic in his approach to decision-making, making sure he reads the fine print etc. He rarely acts on impulse and likes to consider the practical attributes of things (as opposed to aesthetic considerations). He likes to have a vast amount of control over his life at any given moment and feels uncomfortable in chaos. He prefers it when things are scheduled as opposed to spontaenity.
Te

Competitive - When challenged to do something (as long its not overly stupid) he’ll usually step up his game and deliver. He takes competition rather seriously and feels bad if he loses (he’s likely to get angry and give up).
ENTJ

Practical - He is great at getting things done in the real world and thoroughly enjoys tasks like cooking, excercise and cleaning. If he strays from his schedule he can become stressed out. He is the kind of guy that will prep all of his meals in advance because it gives him peace of mind. He also loves making food for others and seeing their faces light up, confirming he has done a good job. He makes a great provider.
J

Deeply insightful - he will pick on the intentions of other people easily and look beyond the surface of what was said. He tends to give a lot of people the benefit of the doubt (e.g. oh she wasn’t being deliberatly mean, she was just acting out of fear from her abusive past etc). He knows a lot about the motives of people in this respect but he’ll rarely ever call them out on it as he’d prefer to keep the harmony.
Ni

People-pleaser - He seeks harmony in his social groups and any overly emotional displays of anger or upset can make him extremeley uncomfortble. While he’s very controlled and organized in his own life, when it comes to social groups he comes off as much more easy-going and doesn’t mind other people deciding what to do and where to hang out. As long as everyone is in good spirits and cooperating, he is happy. He expects others to be considerate of his feelings as he is to theirs and prefers to control his impulsive emotions. He easily gives compliments and likes to see the best in others. He’s great at keeping up a pleasant and harmonious atmosphere by making jokes and teasing others. He has an incredible wit and often can find a clever way to ridicule something by relying on analogies and references. He is also god of sarcasm.

He seems very ENTJ.
 

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Nice to have a brother like that! EFJ is obvious; you give so many examples that identify him as a Feeler that I only want to pick this one:

eaglebearer said:
He expects others to be considerate of his feelings as he is to theirs
You describe him as a practical, detail-oriented person, S > N:

organizing his plans, breaking them down into smaller milestones.

is very good at explaining things to people in a step-by-step way

He has also considered becoming a teacher and a journalist (specifically in the field of history) because he has always been passionate about the subject

He is often bringing up facts and figures from various historical events and processes.

thoroughly enjoys tasks like cooking, exercise and cleaning.

He also loves making food for others

most efficient diet

making sure he reads the fine print etc.

is great with details

using the best processes

likes to consider the practical attributes of things
 

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Achievement-oriented: Je > Ji
Efficient & strategic: Te > Ti
Tactful and diplomatic: -
Responsible: -
Career-wise: Te > Ti
ETJ > ITJ
Systematic: Te supported by S > N. (Correction: S > N is supported by Te.)
ISTJ > ESTJ
Competitive: -
Practical: S > N
Deeply insightful: Ji > Je
ISTJ (F seems not to be inferior)
People-pleaser: -
 
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