I'm fairly sure she's ENFP, though she's usually acting more introvert then extrovert, but I think that may be due to HSP. When she's with family and close friends that disappears almost completely and she acts extrovert for days, don't think that is so common for INFPs. Aside from the I/E issue she's a classic ENFP, and tbh her Fi is well matched against my Fi.
I don't think INTJ or other Te's would be all that good, I make a clear separation between what I feel and what I think and what is right or wrong, I don't see a conflict at all in it. If I for example would say that I believe in a basic income guarantee for everyone that doesn't mean that I've thought about how to do it practically, and I'm not ready to back down on that even if it's not possible at the moment or whatever. Someone attacking my ideals from a practical standpoint doesn't get very far and only adds to the heat of the moment for me. I don't care how impossible it is, I still believe in it. :tongue:
Ti is supposed to be a bigger conflict than Te, but I think this stems more from my inferior Te, compared to Ti which really isn't all that different from Fi in appearance at times. Like how I recently argued for chakras to my father (he's a strong atheistic skeptic), that the chakras, their color and then both mental and physical correspondence essentially is the same as being discovered in the science of colors -- and he won't discriminate such ideas as they do have some factual substance somehow. He may come back a day later or so and point out potential flaws in what I said, and I appreciate that.
Take this not with a grain of salt, but a handful of it, as this is just my perspective. :laughing: