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I've noticed I become much less aggressive when I'm with INFJ's. That might be what he means. I used to always go after INFJ type 4's, but the 4'ness was WAY too powerful for me to deal with. So now I go for ENFJ type 2's because they still integrate to become 4's over time, so its much less overpowering and just as passionate.
I'm a 6w5, so I'm pretty easy to get along with...really, for anyone. I just have to get away from people after a time. I get saturated and overwhelmed. He does too, so it works fine for both of us. We have two or three days together and the rest of the week apart...just long enough to really start missing each other. That could be the key ;)
 

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I have been lurking in this thread for a while, hoping someone would say how well ISTPs click with INTJs so I could get some insight. I guess I only know what my bf has told me, that when we first met he just really enjoyed my company, wanted to be around me, and tried to always sit near me at our work functions. I didn't know any of this at the time, but I was always trying to sit near him, too, without looking like I was trying to hard. Despite the long distance thing, I think we click pretty well. He gets me in a way most people never do and I like to think that he would say the same thing since its been nearly 8 months since we started seeing each other and he's still interested.
 

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I have been lurking in this thread for a while, hoping someone would say how well ISTPs click with INTJs so I could get some insight. I guess I only know what my bf has told me, that when we first met he just really enjoyed my company, wanted to be around me, and tried to always sit near me at our work functions. I didn't know any of this at the time, but I was always trying to sit near him, too, without looking like I was trying to hard. Despite the long distance thing, I think we click pretty well. He gets me in a way most people never do and I like to think that he would say the same thing since its been nearly 8 months since we started seeing each other and he's still interested.
I would seriously dig an INTJ girl, I'm sure. As long as she wasn't a blow-hard and full of shit. A modest INTJ girl would rev my engine. Do those exist?
 

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I would seriously dig an INTJ girl, I'm sure. As long as she wasn't a blow-hard and full of shit. A modest INTJ girl would rev my engine. Do those exist?
I like to think of myself as fairly modest. I have travelled around the world a good bit, so I have had to learn to get along with all types of people. I can't imagine I'm the only one.

When I was younger I was probably more ego-centric than I am now. I lost most of that in my mid to late 20s. I guess I have always felt like I was something special, but I don't expect anyone else to treat me that way, if that makes sense and doesn't sound too arrogant.
 
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