I'm a 6w5, so I'm pretty easy to get along with...really, for anyone. I just have to get away from people after a time. I get saturated and overwhelmed. He does too, so it works fine for both of us. We have two or three days together and the rest of the week apart...just long enough to really start missing each other. That could be the keyI've noticed I become much less aggressive when I'm with INFJ's. That might be what he means. I used to always go after INFJ type 4's, but the 4'ness was WAY too powerful for me to deal with. So now I go for ENFJ type 2's because they still integrate to become 4's over time, so its much less overpowering and just as passionate.