INFJ here. I can only speak for myself. Personally, I don't think I'm attracted to INTJs (unless I've projected my idealised self or INTP on to them!). I joined the forum because I had a small crush on a guy I thought was an INTP. But it went so horribly wrong I came to PerC trying to find answers in the INTP forum - where I got lots of empathy (yes, that is what I mean!) and support, but no major lightbulb moments.I was thinking along the lines of 'if this thread was in a non-type-specific forum (like the Myers Briggs forum), it would give it more credibility than answering the question ourselves'.
I do have my own observations and suspicions of the answer, but I think it's more fun to have other people prove it for us. :wink:
It was only when I came over to read the threads in the INTJ forum that lots of things started to make sense, and I was finally able to let go and resolve my feelings of confusion. Now I just hang around out of curiousity, and a desire to better understand Te so I am not unnecessarily hurt by it in the future. I know INTJs don't mean harm most of the time.
EDIT: I should add that I wouldn't rule out an INFJ-INTJ relationship. At the end of the day for me, it's more about the individual person - is the person kind hearted even if they are awkward, do we share the same values, are they sincere, and do they have integrity that I can respect?
Only generally speaking, there isn't an immediate attraction for me to INTJs.
Actually, thinking about it a little more. I'm not sure that there is a type I'm immediately attracted to. Even the idea of being attracted to an INTP was a one-off. If there is someone I don't understand, I always want to feel around somehow, and see if I can see the person's heart before I make a judgment. It may not be attraction so much as curiosity that makes me want to do this. I know. I'm a weirdo. But, basically, my post is probably meaningless for the purpose of this thread! Sorry folks.