I've thought about this, and I honestly don't believe in duality. I think duality partners make good friends and fuck buddies, but nothing more if that is all you're going on. If you're willing to work, it works. But if you want it to "just be", it doesn't. It's too draining for both parties involved when the expectation is for a natural connection. Especially in terms of communication. Not sharing any functions is pretty rough.what do u mean its a trap?
i just had an istp crush whom i found extremelly hard to understand
and learning about duality and stuff.... i know what i liked about him, never knew what he liked or didnt about me.
ENFPs use completely different functions. If you don't have a lot in common, you're gonna have a bad time.I don't care for the E, N, or F parts mainly.
I think this girl that was chasing me in college was an ENFP, she introduced me to a lot of really interesting people that I never would have met on my own and invited me to do stuff regularly which was nice. I could never be in a relationship with her though, we were too different. She was kind of touchy-feely which I like, but her extroversion was so draining and I just wasn't very comfortable spending a lot of time with her. Also, it's really frustrating dealing with feelers when they're upset or struggling with something. I'm looking for someone similar to me that I can enjoy spending time with, not someone who's opposite and that I have to struggle to understand everyday.
THANK you! If you find a good, well-balanced ENFP, s/he'll be around no matter how much shit your friendship goes through. It's very comforting and sweet. However, an underdeveloped ENFP invokes violent rage and irritation in most ISTPs (aka me) because of how illogical they can be and how obnoxious. I appreciate what Ne has to offer, but it's so insanely draining. It's fun to bounce my Se off of their Ne's, but only for a little while. My ENFP friend and I have a blast together, but we can only be around each other for short periods of time or I'd pass out from exhaustion XPENFPs use completely different functions. If you don't have a lot in common, you're gonna have a bad time.