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Hey all,
Socially incompetent ISTJ who needs some input!
There is this this one girl on my apartment floor whom I shall refer to as "Hannah." Now Hannah is very friendly extroverted girl. When we see each other, we say hi and maybe trade small talk. I strongly believe she's aware that I'm kind of a loner so on two occasions, she's invited me out to events, one of which I attended but the other which I skipped for personal reasons.
Seems normal, right?
Just yesterday, a mutual friend of ours asked, "Hey Jack[my alias], do you know what Hannah said about you?" jokingly with a grin on his face. She frowned and said "Be quiet." He immediately dropped it.
Ok. I know it's the tendency to overthink that causes us ISTJs problems. But a million thoughts are going through my mind. I've ruled out that she's interested in me (seems like the type to shun homebodies). So what's her beef? I don't hang out with her and I occasionally study at the same table as her since she and our mutual classmates study there.
Socially incompetent ISTJ who needs some input!
There is this this one girl on my apartment floor whom I shall refer to as "Hannah." Now Hannah is very friendly extroverted girl. When we see each other, we say hi and maybe trade small talk. I strongly believe she's aware that I'm kind of a loner so on two occasions, she's invited me out to events, one of which I attended but the other which I skipped for personal reasons.
Seems normal, right?
Just yesterday, a mutual friend of ours asked, "Hey Jack[my alias], do you know what Hannah said about you?" jokingly with a grin on his face. She frowned and said "Be quiet." He immediately dropped it.
Ok. I know it's the tendency to overthink that causes us ISTJs problems. But a million thoughts are going through my mind. I've ruled out that she's interested in me (seems like the type to shun homebodies). So what's her beef? I don't hang out with her and I occasionally study at the same table as her since she and our mutual classmates study there.