There might be some correlation between power of choice and having a successful/meaningful relationship. But there is definitely no causality. Favourable outcome for whom? Not for the OP in any case.If you are interested in the fellow, have you let him know?
Despite rumours to the contrary women choose their partners more often than you think.
Nothing will help an ENTJ believe there is a favourable outcome like a dramatic reduction in perceived risk. :th_o: