Lightness, fun and frivolity
I have two ESTP colleagues, one male, one female. The 'lightness' is great because they get me out of my intensity for once in a while and remind me to relax and lighten up. The fun comes from the sense of humour we share. I can have a good laugh with the female ESTP and with the male ESTP, we are always teasing each other and winding each other up for fun. The frivolity is about getting in touch with the side of me that can also enjoy the less heavy topics. For example, I like to talk about fashion and trends in interior design with the female ESTP. The male ESTP reminds me not too take my work so seriously all the time and that it's ok to cut corners sometimes.