I tend to avoid asking ENTJs what they are feeling mid-boss. (I mean, it's work, who cares?)ENTJs, how do you react when people don't do what you tell them to do?
You can spout out commands all day long to me and that's fine by me, but I won't do them unless I agree. I will question your motives and reasoning until I understand where you are coming from, and then if I disagree I will try to get you to see my point of view. I will not act until we have come to a mutual understanding and all the feelings of all the people involved or effected by the act are considered.
How do you feel about this?
How would you react to me?
Would we be able to get along and/or work together?
Would it bother you or would you be inclined to respect me more?
I'd advise playing the logic card with any ENTJ. It's worthy of their respect, and works with my ENTJs really well. As in "it would be more logical to do this." or "I feel uncomfortable because I do not understand the logic of your request." Or "what goal are you trying to meet?"
Another card they like is "this will work better for your master scheme." Of course it only works if this would work better for their master scheme.
Just this week, I tried, "that would take 7 hours, but I did this in 15 minutes and it works just about as well. Can you use it instead so I can finish the other 5 things I have to do?" Worked like a charm.