He's chasing a girl who likes someone else though. I had successfully put him behind me until she started liking someone else. Before she started liking someone else the guy I like and her were really hitting it off, and I picked up on the fact that he didn't act the same way with me that he acts with her. But now she likes someone else and I start thinking.... "What if he gives up on her? Than maybe, he'll see me? Maybe he can be that way with me?" But he just seems to be chasing her more.Try and tell yourself this . As much as i would like this person to be interested in me, if it doesn't come natural for him, my interest is a one way street. If i remain stuck in thinking about why he's chasing other girls and wishing it was me, i'm not leaving room emotionally for a great guy who wants to be with me, so therefore i may miss out on something great with someone else.
Putting time and energy into things that you can't control is not good for you emotionally. Try and move forward and put this behind you. Find someone you connect with who also wants to connect with you. Good luck
Tried talking to him at all? some guys are pretty shybah, feelings are confusing. Had a class with guy for one year that had no interest in me whatsoever and I havent talked to him since (I catch a glimpse of him around campus every now and again). But I still like him?! ITs weird.....
oh yeah. But IM super shy myself and have NO experience in dating whatsoever. We had pretty good conversations at the beginning of the semester and he would joke around a bit in class, but as classes caught up with him he came to the club less and less and the conversations got shorter and less familiar. I kept hoping he'd come back more regularly again, but the few times he did return, he really did not want to talk to me at all. I got very short phrases and/or one word answers. Most the time I felt like I was bothering him...Tried talking to him at all? some guys are pretty shy
Ah, I see you're back.
Since you can't seem to forget about it just like that, try this: figure out what you like ABOUT HIM. Specifically. Is there some stand-out quality that makes you like him more than anything else? Figure out why you're into him, and then if its a substantial reason (a personal quality you admire), then focus on finding that quality in someone else that is more worth your time.
Or what do you do when they're married?