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Where are the LADIES enneatypes 1 and 7 on this forum, I've seen Dear Sigmund as 7 but that's about it , most ENTJs here are 8s ... bummer ? I want to read their stuff.

I wish there was some functionality where you could search people using their MBTI , Enneagram , gender.
 

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That functionality would be good. Turran was a 1, I think Troisi is a 1... don't know any 7s apart from Dear S. Just 8s and 3s.
 

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That functionality would be good. Turran was a 1, I think Troisi is a 1... don't know any 7s apart from Dear S. Just 8s and 3s.
ye and no ladies :sad:
 

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what's so attractive about a type 1/7 ENTJ?
It's what I find attractive, I like a lot 7's "Joie de vivre" I had 3-4 girlfriends of this type, none ENTJ or close though. I tend to be static and I seem to be tensed and loaded with psychological stuff all the time, and their light in their eyes and their simplicity just cheers me up.

With 1's is a different story. 1-4 is a supervisor-supervisee relationship , it's the type that makes me strive for better, it's a "busy" type that allows me to move around with my feedback and "feeling gifts". It's a more of "I go out there and do my work (1), you stay "here" and keep me nurtured and tell me what you think and feel(4)"
 

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Type 8s can have joie de vivre! If you don't make us angry...you won't like us when we're angry. :wink:
It has a different flavor, it's more incisive and not that easy going, I worry that I will disturb it.

... uhmm... and I tend to make people angry , specially the unbalanced 8s, actually I get the hell out of unbalanced 8s way ... you know ... cause my solar plexus goes nuts.
 

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I was quoting the hulk :sad:

Although, to be fair, any unbalanced person should probably be kept at a fair distance.

A balanced person's vibe would be hard to disturb, no matter what the type. Although, I do know what you mean. Why are you looking for easy going ENTJs anyways :confused: (I think a lot of us ARE easy going, just not according to the accepted definition of the term...)
 

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I was quoting the hulk :sad:

Although, to be fair, any unbalanced person should probably be kept at a fair distance.

A balanced person's vibe would be hard to disturb, no matter what the type. Although, I do know what you mean. Why are you looking for easy going ENTJs anyways :confused: (I think a lot of us ARE easy going, just not according to the accepted definition of the term...)
I think everyone of us has a particular and personal definition of balanced and easy going, although might resemble the rest. Putting it in words is very difficult although face to face communication will give you the exact non-verbal information you need about the "balance" and "easy-going"-ness you enjoy the most.

For me a balanced person is the one that has seen many aspects of life, has seen evil and has seen good, and learnt some lessons, not from one side , but both, has a respect for all living, and knows deep down her limitations. Has an intimate awareness of her emotions and thoughts and the patterns of human behavior.

An "Easy-going" person for me is someone that gets me to a high degree and has a calm , present and acceptant attitude, and no, most people here are not like that though it may seem that way. Most people here are loaded with stuff, that's why they are here, they search for some sort of acceptance. I'm no exception from this. I can pick up people's level of consciousness pretty quickly and I tend to mirror it back at them, even on forum, choice of words provides plenty of information.

Most 8s are not easy-going in my book and god I met plenty of them. And I don't mean they are bad, is just not the best for me, that's all.
 

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I think everyone of us has a particular and personal definition of balanced and easy going, although might resemble the rest. Putting it in words is very difficult although face to face communication will give you the exact non-verbal information you need about the "balance" and "easy-going"-ness you enjoy the most.

For me a balanced person is the one that has seen many aspects of life, has seen evil and has seen good, and learnt some lessons, not from one side , but both, has a respect for all living, and knows deep down her limitations. Has an intimate awareness of her emotions and thoughts and the patterns of human behavior.

An "Easy-going" person for me is someone that gets me to a high degree and has a calm , present and acceptant attitude, and no, most people here are not like that though it may seem that way. Most people here are loaded with stuff, that's why they are here, they search for some sort of acceptance. I'm no exception from this. I can pick up people's level of consciousness pretty quickly and I tend to mirror it back at them, even on forum, choice of words provides plenty of information.

Most 8s are not easy-going in my book and god I met plenty of them. And I don't mean they are bad, is just not the best for me, that's all.
I disagree. I can only speak for myself, but I am not really here for acceptance. Don't get me wrong, I have met some fantastic and intelligent people in my short tenure, but I did not come here for the sake of filling a social void. I came here to learn and to debate, and making friends along the way makes me pretty happy :happy: But that's just the way that I am, and I am very picky about friends. I suppose you could interpret that as social acceptance, but I already feel I have satiated the primal need for acceptance earlier in my life, and any friends I make nowadays I make because I genuinely like them and find their company stimulating. Perhaps that is a key difference between and I and E though, even as a rational E, I really do enjoy making new and interesting friends because I like them, not to fill a need within myself. Not that there is anything wrong with that.

On the balanced thing I also disagree. I think a balanced person is balanced no matter what your opinion of the word is. Just because someone is aggressive or passive does not mean that they are any more balanced or unbalanced, it means that there is something inherently biased about your definition of the word balanced.
 

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I think I am the only type 7 here guys. Daylightsun is a 4 and yes most of the others are 8's and 1's. I tested as an 8 once.

So let the fun begin. Its 6:30am and I'm bored already LOL
 
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I'm glad I'm not the only one awake at 6am, revved up and ready to go :laughing:

I have so much to do, yet I'm so bored, as I prepare myself to do these things. I'm like a runner warming up for the day.
 

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I think I am the only type 7 here guys. Daylightsun is a 4 and yes most of the others are 8's and 1's. I tested as an 8 once.

So let the fun begin. Its 6:30am and I'm bored already LOL
Where the Mother F*** did you think I was a 4. I am no 4. I am a 7! My Boyfriend is a 5 if that what your thinking lol
Maybe if I where ENFJ.
 
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Where the Mother F*** did you think I was a 4. I am no 4. I am a 7! My Boyfriend is a 5 if that what your thinking lol
Maybe if I where ENFJ.

yea that was it, I was thinking of your boyfriend ( you hope not, ) No, actually, I was thinking of myself.....I tested as a 5.............once or twice.

Whew, I'm glad we got that cleared up:crazy:
 

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yea that was it, I was thinking of your boyfriend ( you hope not, ) No, actually, I was thinking of myself.....I tested as a 5.............once or twice.

Whew, I'm glad we got that cleared up:crazy:
Good man. :crazy:
 
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