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Hey I was wondering where I'd be able to find someone that's an ENFJ out in the world. Where would they be likely to hang out? o3 o And how would they react if I talked to them?
loudest and can't stop talking....... but not the ones who start sensitive talks unless we are sure that they could turn up into win win situation.Well we are people orientated so places that are populated, like shopping malls, cafes etc. I do alot of coffee shop frequenting.
But seriously I would be more successful at picking out sanguines than ENFJs because they are the ones who laugh the loudest and the most, can't stop talking and look upbeat most of the time. Since I am part sanguine and an ENFJ it makes sense to me that there are other ENFJs who are also sanguines. You should look into the 4 temperaments, very enlightening.
Well, if you want to know how easy it is to spot us in a crowd...just look for the talkative people who look like they don't match, or have possibly and deliberately done so. I do that a lot, today I'm probably going to wear my watch on my belt and put on my hobo gloves (black dress socks I converted to gloves/arm warmers) because, I dunno, I feel like confusing people today with my looks.loudest and can't stop talking....... but not the ones who start sensitive talks unless we are sure that they could turn up into win win situation.
I think ENFJ tend to change the topic into other direction once we have the feeling like 'Wait a minute... I think this is not going to end right'
Give me an idea for a new topic to discuss...and why wouldn't you want to talk to a smiley laughing person? I love being amongst others like that. It's uplifting.
...As long as you don't get mixed up with one who is a huge gossip. It sucks when you can't trust your friends to keep silent about personal stuff. Another thing I have experienced lately. So they didn't make the cut.
It means my laugh sounds 'dirty' - like I'm thinking 'sex' thoughts ...?!What does Dirty Laugh exactly mean?? Never heard of that word before.
Did you find an ENFJ thread starter?
are you talking to me? if you are - no need to say sorry!ahh okk, english is not my main language, so sorry for my ignorance of some idioms hehehehe...