1 comes across as fitting into the stereotype of "pretty boy." He's a programmer with interests in audio/video, graphic design. He's more the stay at home or lounge at coffee shops with friends type.
1 is a business guy with an interest in automobiles. he loves restoring and rebuilding them. especially motorcycles. I don't really know where you would be able to find him aside from work or a car shop.
1 is a musician and is also more the stay inside or lounge at coffee shops type, but he's more likely to be there by himself.
You can find the majority of the ESTJ men I know on the same Libertarian / Take Back America / America for Americans type Facebook pages. (With the exception, of course, of the ESTJ I know who doesn't use social media for fear the government will know what he's doing and will imprison him or whatever for his strong opinions.)
Why is this my thread? Man, I've no idea of where to find us...
Guess I could make a try. First of all, not on online forums. We're extroverts, so somewhere with a lot of people. More likely clubs or organizations than parties, unless we're hosting the party. But still, more likely something with a bit more meaning to it. And usually somewhere with the authority to organize things. - This is just by the stereotypical ESTJ, which is not what you should look for if you want to find one of us. If you do, you'll just find unhealthy ExTJs, and trust me, you do not want to do that.
Personally, I'm not "out" that much. I tend to hang out with my friends at their places, or go to youth groups. If I had the money and time, I'd be training some martial art, so you'd be able to find me there.