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My recent girlfriend i think is an ESFJ.. not sure about the E, but i know definitely for sure about SFJ. But anyway, if you're an ESFJ, ENTP, ESTP, or know anyone or anything about the relationship among these types, which type do you think is better suitable as a mate for an ESFJ - ENTP or ESTP?
 

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My recent girlfriend i think is an ESFJ.. not sure about the E, but i know definitely for sure about SFJ. But anyway, if you're an ESFJ, ENTP, ESTP, or know anyone or anything about the relationship among these types, which type do you think is better suitable as a mate for an ESFJ - ENTP or ESTP?
Suitable in what way?
 

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Yea I mean there's a million variables as to why people will or will not get along. It's really hard to say, though the basic tendency is one of compensation meaning people look for things in other people that they themselves do not outwardly possess (so you get the good girl with bad boy kinda thing going on). That's attraction though, not what keeps people together which is a whole another story.
 

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Assuming all else equal?

ENTP.

Same functions, same interaction style ('Get Things Going').
 

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My recent girlfriend i think is an ESFJ.. not sure about the E, but i know definitely for sure about SFJ. But anyway, if you're an ESFJ, ENTP, ESTP, or know anyone or anything about the relationship among these types, which type do you think is better suitable as a mate for an ESFJ - ENTP or ESTP?
ENTP-ESFJ are activity relations. Therefore, more compatible than ESTP-ESFJ.
My personal experience has been that I understand what ESFJs are saying more than ESTPs do.
ESTPs fight more with ESFJs.
Whereas, ESFJs fight with ENTP and ENTP understands what ESFJ is saying and gives insight, helps solve the issue, etc. Granted, it depends on the ESFJ and the ENTP in question.
 
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